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Clarrissa (original poster member #21886) posted at 12:38 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
She's a wayward that my H talked to online and directed here. He also gave her my username so she would already "know" someone here. I know she's registered but has yet to post. I've PMed with her a few times, encouraging her to tell her story but she's understandably hesitant to do so, even though she's lurked for a while now. She's also not sure how much of her story to post. I know some of her story through my H but I don't want to say anything here, allow her to tell what she's comfortable with.
I know she can get the help she needs and I've reassured her that no one will judge her, that we just want to help.
I'm hoping she reads this post and the replies and that it will allay some of her fears about putting her story out here.
So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here. 
BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 12:38 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
So I'll be the first to say: Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here.
x2!
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 12:44 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Welcome flowerisland, you're safe here
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Hi flowerisland,
Welcome to SI. This is a great place for support and help getting through this nightmare that we created.
We've been there, done that and are here for you when you're ready.
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 1:12 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
ophelia24 ( member #38438) posted at 1:22 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Most definitely welcome! Read my profile Flowerisland. I've done some terrible things to myself, my H and family. This is a great place to work through the morass of pain we carry.
Hope to see you soon.
“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.”
― James Baldwin
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 1:48 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Welcome flowerisland.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 2:24 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Welcome Flowerisland, you just found the best most understanding and honest place for a wayward. You're safe here. Please feel free to PM if you want to talk.
Joanh ( member #39146) posted at 2:53 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Welcome to the place where you can be free to say what is on your mind and know most of us if not all of us understand part if not all the feelings you are going through. If this is what you want is to become true to your self free and loving to yourself . This is a great place I know its given me a place to be free with my thots. and has allowed me to see the world through some different set of eyes as well. Welcome my dear.
BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....
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