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Just let me go

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 myperfectlife (original poster member #39801) posted at 4:49 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

For months you've kept me hanging on

to every word you've uttered.

You love me, you don't love me, you love her, you don't love her...

so many realities muttered.

For hours I've wept, and screamed and fought

to keep our love from dying.

I blamed myself so many times,

when I know you had stopped trying.

For years I held our dreams together, sacrificed for our tomorrow.

You crushed those dreams beneath your heal, leaving me with only sorrow.

You knew but would not tell me.

You are not the man I love,

I know.

Instead of holding me and lying...

Why didn't you

just let me go.

I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:55 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

(((((myperfectlife)))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 4:59 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

(((Myperfectlife)))

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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Grilla ( new member #40299) posted at 5:32 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

It's just dumbfounds me the way human beings can go through with cheating on people that they claim that they love. My wife told me, "I never stopped loving you".

How could you?! I'm a man with one hell of a sex drive, and the five years that my wifes sexual appetite subsided I never seriously considered an affair.

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HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 6:29 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

(((((myperfectlife)))))

(((((grilla)))))

It's selfishness, plain and simple.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

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PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 8:10 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

I so understand, WHY don't they just let us go?

Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 8:36 AM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

I hear you MPL...I've wondered the same thing..I.wish I had an answer for you and.myself.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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