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 maddmurph (original poster member #40940) posted at 7:02 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

I'm sitting here panicking waiting for the counselor. My heart is just pounding. Why am I ready to run away?

Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

because it is scary shit.

Hang in there, the first go is usually just a get to know you thing, and probably won't really deal with any issues.

((((and strength)))))

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:24 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

I hope that it went well for you. Those first few visits can be REALLY scary! I wonder if the counciler's are as nervious when they meet a new client?

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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 maddmurph (original poster member #40940) posted at 9:31 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013

I went really well. Which is good. I feel better.

I'm gonna ask if she was nervous too.

Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

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