So, I’ve been NC with @sswh0le. He cheated, and then he ran like a punk. He has blameshifted, outright lied, snuck around, got his 20 years junior mistress pregnant. Uhgggg, the list goes on and on. I don’t have hate in my heart, as he likes to claim, but I had a whole lot of hurt lodged up in there. I’ve been trying to heal. It doesn’t help that he would text and email (because I refused to answer his phone calls) how I’m so horrible of a person, that I don’t deserve to be loved (almost his exact words), and that his A was my fault because I was such an evil B…h!
I have taken the high road to all of his ugly, hateful comments. Until last Thursday.
Our dog, Max, was bitten 3X by a rattlesnake. I LOVE my dog. STBXH was often jealous of just how much love I have for my “real” man in the home. You know, the faithful, brave, loving dog.
Fast forward: I’m driving 90 MPH to the animal hospital and I called him sobbing. I thought my baby was going to die beside me. It was one of the worst feelings I’ve ever had. So STBWXH was actually ok, at first. They immediately got him on pain meds and ran bloodwork. The tech came in and told me the estimate was between $3,900 and $4,800, if nothing else happened to my dog. I relayed the information to STBWXH. He told me he didn’t’ have it. Did I explode on him that he just spent over $9,000 on his Shrek lookalike whore in less than one month. $9,000!!!!!!!! NO. I said I understood. I started sobbing because I didn’t have that kind of money either and was going to have to take my dog home and watch him die a painful death right in front of me.
He attacked. Told me I made money (he makes 11X more money than me). Wow, seriously. I blasted him. I was hopped up on adrenaline and completely devastated that I was going to have to watch my poor baby die. Did I say how much I LOVE my dog???? Yeah, blasted was an understatement. Then I went on to tell him every single thing wrong with his weak pathetic @ss. I even told him how his stupid whore was flirting with the PI I had hired. Yeah, I had saved that gem for a rainy day!
I had previously sent him pictures of our dog’s face. So, when he went on shift and accessed his email, he finally saw for himself what I had been dealing with.
Side note, the neighbor’s daughter was a vet tech and they called to tell me to take him to the hospital she worked at. OMG we saved 70% from what the first hospital was quoting. I didn’t hesitate to pay that amount because I had it.
Now, moron calls and texts me all times of the day and night and wants to pay whatever amount. He was even crying two of the times.
The integrity part comes in. The first bill was the total price without the discount. She sent the second bill in a different email. Why why why did I send him the correct bill. I could have pocketed that money. I really NEED that money too. Though, I do believe that Karma or balance hits. So I really hope my integrity pays off in some really great Karma points. Was I stupid????
And next question, why is he now calling, emailing and texting soooo much? Our dog took a turn for the worse and almost didn’t make it the first 2 days, but he is doing fantastic now! Is this the hovering??