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 caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 2:50 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

I want to thank you. It is so reassuring to see your name pop up on threads related to health/stress. You are a voice of reason and in my head you have the absolute perfect bedside manner!

I LOVE that you are a part of this community.

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 2:58 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

^^^What she said.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 3:07 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

I LOVE that you are a part of this community

I always appreciate reading your responses and how willing you are to share your knowledge with everyone here.

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 5:44 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

Ditto! Always love to see Dr PJ chime in!

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:06 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

Another ditto. Sorry you had to find us, but glad you are here.

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:33 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

Same here!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 9:00 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 10:17 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

I agree! I always look for your responses.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 12:32 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

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travels ( member #20334) posted at 11:21 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

I wish she lived closer, or I lived closer to her.

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 1:14 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

Yes & raised to the nth degree!

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:36 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

No kidding. I'd like to have her for a PCP.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

I luvz herz!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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 caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 4:25 AM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

I figured I wasn't the only one...

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

You guys are all TOO kind!

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 6:21 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

Ya know... We can all masquerade as anyone we want to be... What if she got her medical degree from Greys Anatomy and is only CALLING herself a Dr?!?!

Just kidding... But it could be true...

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 5:41 AM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013

What if she got her medical degree from Greys Anatomy and is only CALLING herself a Dr?!?!

If it were from Grey's Anatomy, she would be making a hell alot more money with better hours and she would not have spent all those years in medical school. I also am happy you are here.

I remember when Dr PJ first came to SI and she wasn't sure if she belonged because she was betrayed by a same sex partner.

SIers assured her the pain of betrayl wasn't less or more than we had from traditional relationships.Betrayl hurts like hell.

I'm also glad you stayed around so we can see you heal and move pass the pain. It's a very long difficult journey so it's good to see members move from only seeking advice but giving it back.

SI is the best club you don't ever want to be a member of...

Gma

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 6:33 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013

Lucky, if I were going to "pretend" to be something it would be .... A SECRET AGENT!

Being a doctor is actually fairly boring. If it wasn't for getting to teach residents and students and helping the peeps.... Meh. There is no glamour in looking at a maggot infested foot in the middle of the night. No-siree!!!

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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