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Divorce/Separation :
Divorce paperwork and timeline

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 Must Survive (original poster member #34533) posted at 5:17 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

Guess today is my posting day.

I am in CA. Had settlement meeting 4 months ago. I have handwritten agreement. STBXH lawyer should be doing the official paperwork.

Am I correct in thinking the document is typed up. Passed along to both parties to sign, then sent into the court for it to be filed and official?

I have not gotten anything yet? And a couple of months ago at modification hearing I heard STBXH lawyer tell him (when he yelled when is this going to be done/over with) that it can take months to get stuff back from the courts because of backlog. But shouldn't I have gotten something typed up to sign before it went to the courts for filing?

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Gajit ( member #40665) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

Our jurisdiction has a website where you can look up filed documents. Does yours have something similar or can you call his lawyer to ask about it?

Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

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lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

Im not sure you will get anything. you may have to call them to pay for copies or request thru the courts. I didnt get anything when I did my last D prose. so if I want anything, I have to go into court and pay $1.50 per page

when you use a lawyer, you should get everything promptly

Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.

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