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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 8:04 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Receive a Christmas card from XPOS in the mail today thanking me for the help with his mother and $20 to "have a few cups of coffee on him." The kicker? He signed it "Love, XPOS" What the hell is he thinking?? Because horse-faced twatbox dumped him we will rugsweep 20 years of infidelity and go back to the way we were? He has never ever apologized for any of his shit and he still thinks he is entitled to use the word "love?" He doesn't know the meaning of the fucking word, the miserable rat bastard! How dare he even use it with me! I found it highly insulting!! What a fucktwit!!!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:06 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
That would REALLY set me off. Vent away, sister!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 8:06 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
What a total idiot he is!!!!!!
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 8:11 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Still venting...RAT BASTARD! Self-centered, arrogant, fucked up miserable PIECE OF SHIT SORRY EXCUSE OF A HUMAN BEING!!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:17 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Give the card to a women's shelter or a veteran's center. Let them benefit from this.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 8:46 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Wow. He is presumptuous. He thinks that sending you his "love" is okay? wanted? warranted? needed? What arsehole. Send it back with a note saying "No thanks, I've had your love, being alone is better."
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:12 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
I agree with NG. Give it to someone who can benefit, a homeless person or a shelter etc.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 11:32 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Wayward entitlement !! Vent away ! He is a shithead!
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
BrokenDaisy ( member #37063) posted at 11:52 AM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Vent away! They are crazy delusional. I like Irishlass suggestion 
but would probably go with NatureGirl's suggestion if I were you.
Mine sent me a "thinking of you card" the week of our divorce. Idiots indeed! 
Me xBW, him SA NPD WxH
1 son: sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
No longer broken
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!
justjim ( member #41150) posted at 1:14 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Send the card on to the "horse faced twatbox".
Let her know that when she took him, she also took on his baggage.
Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 2:47 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
After D-day, when he moved in with the OW, he used to tell me he loved me and sign his emails Love, XWH.
I finally told him to stop saying that. "Clearly you do not love me" I told him.
These assholes really do not know what love is.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
ItHappened2Me2 ( member #32503) posted at 2:52 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Yeah, that makes sense: $20 and his "love" should be enough to smooth over everything.
FTG
FTG
FTG
FTG
oh -- and FUCK THAT GUY!!!!!!!
BS - me (57 now); WS - him (57 now)
DD 21o, DS 17 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013
DIVORCED!!!! and doing well
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 3:00 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
What a lovely sentiment..NOT! Obviously his head is up his ass so far he's smelling roses! Just shred the card and give the money to a women's shelter or buy something for your kids with it. Don't tell him you received it and if he asks about it say something vague "I got so many cards I can't recall." Dickwad
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
badmedicine ( member #41692) posted at 8:28 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
Gross. Wayward entitled love is gross.
Alternate suggestion: Buy $20 worth of coffee and pour it *ON HIM*.
"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:09 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
WHAT A FUCKING ASSHOLE!!!! 
Did I hear someone say FTG??
((((Phoenix))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 10:59 PM on Saturday, December 28th, 2013
To quote someone else, send it back with a note that says,
"There are no fish in this pond. This pond is empty. Fuck off!"
I swear some of these idiots have heads of solid bone!
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:09 AM on Sunday, December 29th, 2013
That is insane. What does he think you will do now? Thank him??!?? Ha!
HAHAHAHAHAHAA!
Good lord. Freaking idiot!
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
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