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staystrong25 (original poster new member #42120) posted at 3:43 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Should I contact the other woman? She was someone I considered my best friend but betrayed me and had an affair with my husband. I never got to tell her how I feel or just tell her off. I am still very bitter towards her, especially since she feels she is better then me now. Should I just let it be? I feel the need to get her back.
[This message edited by staystrong25 at 10:57 AM, January 19th (Sunday)]
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 5:11 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
I would advise against it. She could really be hurtful to you; she clearly is not a nice person.
Ultimately what does a person like that matter? Her opinion means nothing. Stop letting her take up head space and focus on more positive things.
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 5:15 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Advise against it too.
In the ICR forums, there's a thread for you called:
"Double Betrayal"
http://survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=512858
I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
hugs
Lola88 ( member #41540) posted at 5:16 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
She was never your best friend or even a good friend as she couldn't have done what she did if she was.
Sending strength, hugs and wishes for genuine friends to you (((staystrong25))) - you deserve better than her!
aero1122 ( member #41575) posted at 2:07 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
I also contemplated contacting the OW and decided against it. She is a low life who is not worth your time or thoughts. She obviously was not a real friend if she betrayed you like this.
Stay strong (((hugs)))
Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R
I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!
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