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Midas (original poster member #22832) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
Just found out tonight that who I thought was OM#1, was actually OM#2. So now there have been three affairs during our 17 year marriage. Also she cheated on me when we dated in high-school with four other boys, for a total of seven affairs during our relationship.
[This message edited by Midas at 11:12 PM, February 17th (Monday)]
Midas
Me - 37 (BS)
Her - 36 (XW)
OM#1-4 Dday 2/17/2014 pre-marriage
OM#5 - Dday 2/17/2014 <new info>
OM#6 - Dday 4/30/2006
OM#7 - Dday 1/29/2014
DD - 6yo
Filed for D 2/10/2014
D 4/2014
False R 6/2014
ILYBINILWY 10/2014
Dreamland ( member #40488) posted at 8:33 AM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
So so sorry. Glad your kicking her out. You deserve more.. If he just looks at one other woman he's out dying or not
Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore
shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 2:12 PM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
Wow Midas. So sorry. Just know you didn't do any wrong and didn't deserve such treatment.
She's a piece of work 
You need to go NC as much as you can.
But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17
Uhtred ( member #40392) posted at 3:37 PM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
I sure hate to hear that man. Stay strong and steadfast and you'll get there.
Me: BH 38years old DDay 4-29-13Her: FWW 39
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 3:41 PM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
Read your profile man so sorry. Let her go, you will be much happier in the long rum.
FWIW- if you don't plan on it, sue for full custody and make a point to bring before the court all the sorts of people she has been dating. Protect your daughter. Not introducing romantic partners for X number of years is something that can be written into the D.
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:39 PM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014
Hard to find a silver lining amidst the pain, but at least this knowledge helps give you even more clarity as to who she really is. And that can be a blessing in its own way.
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