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DTERMINED2SURVIV (original poster member #42294) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
This may sound wierd but im sure im not alone here.....
I have spoken with my spouse about my favorite "wierd" feelings..
1.New pairs of socks....I LOVE the feeling of new socks..
2. Cleaning my ears!!...ahhh
Yes in that order....Whats yours??
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 2:48 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
I love new pajamas!
And clipping my toenails - love freshly clipped toenails 
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
DTERMINED2SURVIV (original poster member #42294) posted at 2:51 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Yeah...deff clipping the toe nails...
Also, I like to shave my legs RIGHT before I go to bed, then rub them on the bed sheets lol 
!!
Thanks for making sure im not alone!!
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:13 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Freshly shaved legs and clean sheets
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 3:40 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Brand new contact lenses
A fresh pedicure
Clean sheets
Smell of a horse barn
The muzzle of a new born foal
A clean cool tiled floor on bare feet on a hot summer day
Fresh cut grass on a thick lawn
New shoes
New make-up
Fresh hair-cut & dye job
Taste of a Diet Coke over ice when it's a tiny bit frozen in the can.
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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:29 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
A warm spring/summer evening, listening to the insects buzz, feeling the warm breeze, smelling the sweet grass, watching the sun set and the moon rise; ahhhhh 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Brand new chapstick. Especially cherry.
Being the first to take that scoop from a new jar of peanut butter. Not sure why, just feels great.
Peeling dried elmer's glue off my hand. (Weird, but we did this as kids and its still fun)
finishing a spirograph without any mistakes.
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:21 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Freshly shaved legs and clean sheets
^^^THIS is bliss!!
Listening to the frogs croak in the early evening.
BEST ever for me: being with my grandbabies!
eta: spelling
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Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 11:30 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Shaved legs and the sheets.
The smell of lily of the valley.
New pajamas. (I just wore some last night!)
Sound of a creek burbling.
The smell of a new book.
Pedicure.
The way the wind lifts my hair.
The smell of woodlands.
I'd be happy for life with a cottage in a wooded valley somewhere, as long as I had someone sending me pajamagrams and books every few weeks.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 3:11 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
the crispness of towels dried outside
turning over the dirt in the garden for the first time after winter
casting on a new knitting project
opening a book for the first time
writing in a new journal for the first time
my daughter's curls on my cheek
the sounds of birds outside my window after a very long winter
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Hmmm, liking lots of these. I enjoy essential oils. I mix them with salts for my daily bath. Some of my favorites...
Jasmine
Lavender
Bergamot
Rose geranium
Pink grapefruit
Rosemary
I'm also thinking that curling up with one or more purring cats is another random good feeling...
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
DTERMINED2SURVIV (original poster member #42294) posted at 6:21 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Oh my goodness!! I have not had a cat in years! I SWEAR that is such a great feeling to have a purring kitty in your lap. Everytime i see a comercial on tv with a cat I lose it. My spouse says no... 
I wont stop asking tho, eventually he'll cave!
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 6:46 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
My husband hated cats. He is now advocating we adopt a third kitty. I think the purring has won him over, too.
I swear he even gets a kick out of the 6AM "please feed me!" head butts!
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 10:21 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Freshly shaved legs and clean sheets
yes, yes, yes, oh my, yes.
lotion on my face after a shower.
first sip of coffee in the morning.
bare feet in warm garden dirt.
the feeling in between kitty paw pads.
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
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