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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 5:55 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
I am currently enjoying my independence trip to the Caribbean with DD17. XPOS has been trying to contact me as he says he needs to talk about something important. I don't have voice service (I do, but only for emergencies due to cost, and he is not an emergency) and have told him that. He has tried calling (I don't answer) and there is no voicemail for him. I have told my other kids I don't want him to know about this trip, and they are protecting my privacy. He has called DD22 several times fishing for info about my whereabouts and why I don't have phone service. She is playing dumb. He has called my work and asked about my whereabouts, but my office manager knew it was him and is also playing dumb. I travel for work so it is not unusual. It is the lack of communication that is what is doing it. I can tell by his persistence that it is driving him crazy. That makes me smile. 
Guess what asshole? We are divorced and my whereabouts are none of your fucking business!!
Back to the sun, sand, and sea as a single woman!!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 5:58 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Hitting the Like button******
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 6:07 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
I want to be you.
Maybe for next winter I need to look into cruises that are baby-friendly :)
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
HAHAHAHAHA you loser XPOS!!! She's free from you!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 6:11 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Love this post!! Now get back to enjoying your vacay!
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Great gif NG!
Just killing a little time before my next dive trip, dmari, no worries on that score!
Squirm, asshole, squirm!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 8:36 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
BS (me)
XNPDWS
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost
ThisHell ( member #37089) posted at 8:37 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Ok seriously NG, every ounce of my competitive nature really wants to challenge your hilarious images and outdo you... and then I remember I have no idea where to even FIND these pics let alone post them! Cracks me up every time...
Anyway, T/J over..
Good on ya Phoenix. 
keep em guessing!
Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:40 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
t/j
Don't do it to challenge me. Just do it to have fun with me! I love seeing how other people add visuals to their posts!
end t/j
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 2:59 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
XPOS on the left... ...Phoenix on the right.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 3:30 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Good for you! I kind of worry about this with my WH after D. I will reread this post for inspiration.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 3:50 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Perfect Gemini! I think you nailed it!!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 4:12 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Phoenix,
You're doing it right!
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