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Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 6:41 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
A while back, I was heartbroken when The Princess sent me a text that she had accidentally deleted all pictures of our kids (2004 to present day) from what used to be "our" computer. I told her to stop using it, and get it to a data recovery place as quickly as possible. That was months ago, and she hasn't done this yet.
This is because she is a fucking boob.
Well, I was on my iPod this morning, and found all 1200-ish missing pictures. I had forgotten I even had them on there! So I now have all these pictures back, and don't have to wait for her to do something about it.
I was so excited that I sent a text to 13 and 10 to tell them about it. I guess I could have kept it private, and not have to send them to their mom, but that would have been mean. So, I will happily burn them onto a CD to give to her.
Of course, that's assuming that she doesn't already have copies of them. She could have been lying to me about the whole thing. I really don't trust anything that comes out of her mouth anymore.
But HURRAH!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
YAY!!!! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 6:49 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Please, please, please, burn a CD or two and store in a safe place.
Now.
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
ThisHell ( member #37089) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Yay! BUT...nooope! Do not take that initiative! Do not be codependent! It is no longer your responsibility! You have the pics for yourself, that's great.
She has a method of retrieving them and has chosen not to! SHOULD the kids tell her and SHE ask if you could, tell her to give you a flash drive at the next drop off and you will give it back with the pics, but only if she asks!
Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:12 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Awesome!!
Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 8:17 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
That makes sense, ThisHell. Thanks!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 8:23 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
That's great news! It might be time to invest in a small amount of cloud storage to make sure they're safe.
Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 8:26 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Just did that, Hopeless. Thanks!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 8:32 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
What a relief! The doosh is an IT guy and photos/videos were his thing.
:(
I am glad you have your memories!
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 9:56 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 10:32 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Yeah Pass!
T/J STBXH was kicked out and was given everything of his. He never has requested ANY pics or mementos at all. In 20 years, he has 1 picture maybe of his son. Nothing else, except what he may have taken now since Dday.
I will never give him a copy of them. As far as I am concerned, he left, he gets nothing.
Umm still angry, healing not completed apparently.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
grownapair ( member #33622) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Fantastic! 
BS - me, 40 WH - 42
Kids 8 and 10
Definitely done!
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