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cs2384 (original poster member #34873) posted at 2:08 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Themomentswestand.blogspot.com
This is a BW whose WH was murdered by the other BS. She is very open and raw with her emotions. It is a reminder that while it is too late for her family. It's not too late for others. I read her blog and cry. And am grateful for my BH and his mercy and forgiveness to me. I can't believe I was such a jerk to him.
Anyway, while this situation is extremely rare. My heart goes our to her. Her emotions and feelings are those of a BS in general and a reminder of how severe our actions, as waywards, affect our loved ones.
If you're still lying to your spouse--it's not too late. It's worth trying to fix.
WW--me 28
BH--32
Married ten years
Two daughters 7 and 8
In recovery
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 9:10 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Completely speechless at looking at that blog. I truly have no words for it.
Thank you for sharing that.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 9:34 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Thank you for that. Truly touching.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 9:46 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Thanks for sharing the link. It's incredible sad. She's a survivor with great strength.
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 10:15 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
Wow, that was so touching and sad. I started to cry also when she was stating how awful she was treated and she didn't know why. I completely understand those feelings.
Thank you for sharing.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
CantBeUndone ( member #42205) posted at 4:06 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
Dateline did an episode on this couple. I read the blog, then watched the dateline and shame, regret, disgust and sadness washed over me watching it. I guess the one thing I am thankful for in all of this mess I made was that my AP was single.
Thank you for sharing the blog. Powerful stuff.
Me: WW
Him: BH
30's, 4 kids
DD- Jan 2014
cs2384 (original poster member #34873) posted at 6:29 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
I watched the dateline too. Kandi is disgusting. She really doesn't seem remorseful. She still seemed to be blaming her husband's affair for the reason she was a mad hatter. She gave Ashlee a gift when Ashlee had the baby. 
what a
Piece of work. I pray I never end up back in that WW mentality. I hate that I ever had anything in common with Kandi. I don't want to be anything like that.
WW--me 28
BH--32
Married ten years
Two daughters 7 and 8
In recovery
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 6:35 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
+1 for grateful AP was single.
I feel terrible for those poor children. A good reminder that infidelity hurts everyone.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
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