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I've been hearing a lot of songs lately that are pulling at me thru the A process.

There's a few that hold me up, then there's those few that should represent a M, but I know they don't represent my M, more specifically wh's feelings or mine. Here's my list at the moment:

Helping me/holding me up:

Let it go, from the movie Frozen

And Titanium

These two songs remind me I'm stronger then this, and I can get thru and be me and that's ok,better then ok

Then there's the songs that make me sad, by showing me what I'm missing/wanting in my M

All of me by John Legend, my wh won't give me back his heart/love. There for he won't give me all of himself, and I can't give him all of me ever again. I did that once and look where I am today.

And "say something" not sure the artist,but that song reminds me that I don't have a wh that's willing to fight for me and is just willing to let me walk away.

And then there's the song "I won't give up" well what can I say,he gave up a long time ago and never tried to come back, and I know he never will fight like this song.

There are a few I remember at this moment (it's 4am here). I know there's more that I can't remember the names of.

[This message edited by scangel3 at 6:13 AM, March 29th (Saturday)]

Hmm..

All of me is one

Story of my life (one D).. What can I say I have pre teen girls

The re is another song ... Which talks about blood being bicker than water... And would ou believe that for the

Ice of me I can't think of it?? Drawn a mental blank.

I heard "All of Me" by John Legend the other day at work and it made me start crying.

"Say something" by A Great Big World and Christina Aguilera and

"I won't give up" by Jason Mraz both touch my heart strings. Sometimes I send songs to my WH when I don't know what else to say. They can sum up my feelings so beautifully.

Warning I have eclectic song tastes...

"Haven't We lost enough" - Stephen Stills

"Wild World" - Cat Stevens

"In my Darkest Hour" - Megadeth

"How Blue Can you get" - BB king

"Don't do it" - The Band

I've got a collection :) One playlist for feeling happy/hopefull and one playlist for feeling not happy... since I'm still very much on a roller coaster.

Scangel3 & Soloney: I have "Say Something" & "I Won't Give Up" included too!

"Staying Alive" - Cursive

I've decided tonight

The worst is over

"Both Sides Now" - Joni Mitchell

"Stubborn Love" - Lumineers

"Melt My Heart to Stone" - Adele

And I hear your words that I made up

I best tidy up my head I'm the only one in love

WH chose some songs for a romantic playlist once when I asked him to...

One of this choices brought me to tears, its an incredible song, especially coming from him:

"You Still Believe in Me" - Beach Boys

I know perfectly well

You still believe in me

[This message edited by Putto at 9:40 AM, March 29th (Saturday)]

"Both Sides Now" - Joni Mitchell

Nice pull. I forgot all about that song. I'm going to have to add it to my play list.

Omg this is so weird. I was driving around this morning and got on here just to ask this same question about songs... wow..lol

Anyways Katy Perry has pretty much saved my sanity. Especially her new CO thay recently came out.

Roar katty perry is one of them and a few on her new album..don't know the names yet..

Dark horse- katty perry

Unconditionally -katty perry

Just give me a reason -pink

Hurt you -babyface

Too close -Alex clare (how I feel sometimes)

The worst -Jhene Aiko

Clarity -zedd? I think.lol

All the way home -Tamara Braxton

Wake me up -professor (reggae) it could be a trigger for some though.

When a womans fed up - R.Kelly

I Need your love - Ellie Goulding

All of me -John legend

Say something -Christina

I won't give up

Let it go

IT TAKES TWO - KATY PERRY

Pretty good song about her break up with Russell

Brand.

And Stereophonics - Been Caught Cheating - Great song!!!

I have a whole playlist for when I'm in the mood for some wine and a pity party for myself, which can be really therapeutic!! :) The ones in Italic are my absolute favorites (give them a listen if you have free time!!)

Chevelle - Send the Pain Below

Birdy - Wings

Coldplay - The Scientist

Miley Cyrus - Maybe you're right

Rihanna - What now

Stereophonics - Been Caught Cheating

James Morrison - Broken Strings

Gavin Degraw - Not Over You

Katy Perry - Ghost

Gavin Degraw - Heartbreak

Adele - Someone Like You

Beyonce - Resentment

Mat Kearney - All I Need

Coldplay - Swallowed In The Sea

Beyonce - Irreplaceable

One Republic - Au Revoir

Gavin Degraw - Need

Mumford And Sons - After The Storm

Yep yep to Katy Perry. Adele, Pink, Kelley Clarkson, and Carrie Underwood are my go-to girls too.

I always wished my ex would be remorseful, and Daughtry has a lot of "remorseful" and "take me back" type songs. I asked ex to listen to some of them, but he just told me he hates Daughtry and refused.. When we separated, I found "What I Meant To Say," and that's my favorite song by Daughtry now..

You'll Be Okay by A Great Big World

Songs that I listen to lately on my iPhone....

Beautiful pain- Eminem

Bleeding out- imagine Dragons

Bravado- lorde

Demons- Imagine Dragons

Drive- Miley Cyrus

Falling fast- Avril Lavigne

Feels like coming home-Jetta

Glory Bound- Martin Sexton

Its been awhile- Staind

Lego house- Ed Sheeran

Powerless- Linkin Park

The Reason- Hoobstank

Reply-Staind

Roar- katy Perry

Sad- Maroon 5

Shelter- Birdy

Skinny love- Birdy

Somebody that I used to know- gotye

Stay- Jesse Thomas

Strip my mind- red hot chili peppers

To be with you- Mr. Big

True love- Pink

Try- Nelly Furtado

The way we touch- we are twin

What goes around comes around- justin Timberlake

When you love somebody- leela James

Young forever- nicki minaj

Your biggest mistake- Ellie Goulding

Nobody's petfect- Jessie J

slight t/j

After a few months we took a spur of the moment trip to Florida. I think we both just thought we could put the world on hold for a bit.

We were heading towards Animal Kingdom at Disney and Remember When by Alan Jackson comes on the radio.

We are pulling into the park amongst a million other happy people and we both have red swollen eyes and snot running all over the place.

I still cannot listen to that song without breaking down.

Listening to songs are so therapeutic and I've been searching for some great songs to add to my list. Thanks for all the ideas!! Here are a few of mine:

- Just Give Me a Reason - Pink

- A Little Bit Stronger - Sara Evans

- Cheater, Cheater - Joey & Rory

- Funhouse - Pink

- I Don't Believe You - Pink

- Over You - Daughtry

- You Oughta Know - Alanis Morrisette

- I Told You So - Randy Travis

- Come Over - Kenny Chesney

- Don't You Remember - Adele

- Roar - Katy Perry

- Fighter - Christina Aguilera

This thread is very timely for me. I heard two more on the radio today that I haven't thought about in a long time.

"Doin' Time" -Sublime

"Rain King" - Counting Crows (This song gave me goose bumps today.)

Don't try and bleed me

I've been there before

And I deserve a little more

I belong in the service of a queen

I belong anywhere but in between

She's been lying and I've been sinking

I am the rain king.

*goose bumps

Oh I forgot to mention Love Me by katy perry... it is my #1 song right now

Dang, I haven't heard Rain King in ages. Great CD. I ended up with two of them somehow. Time to put one of them in my car. Thanks for that..

Dang, I haven't heard Rain King in ages. Great CD. I ended up with two of them somehow. Time to put one of them in my car. Thanks for that..

Any time.

I've always said the biggest hindrance to the Counting Crows was that they released the perfect fist album. No band can do that every time. When it's your first album everything that comes after people say "It's good but not as good as that first one." Then they start talking about how you lost your touch. If August and Everything After was their third album they'd be talked about along side all the greats in the history of rock and roll.

My emotions fluctuate during the day. Early on in the process ALL my song choices were tear jerkers. Now, the choices are more eclectic.

Feelin' Single R. Kelly

Hurt You Toni Braxton & Baby Face

Where Did We Go Wrong Toni Braxton & Baby Face

Psycho Killer Talking Heads

Foolish Heart Steve Perry

Lady Gaga has helped me so much during this past DD. The song Dope is amazing and hits a cord with me because my husband is SA...

Cork's off, it's on

The party's just begun

I promise

This drink is my last one

I know I fucked up again

Because I lost my only friend

God forgive my sins

Don't leave me, I

Oh I will hate myself until I die

My heart would break without you

Might not awake without you

Been hurting low, from living high for so long

I'm sorry, and I love you

Sing with me, "Bell Bottom Blue"

I'll keep on searching for an answer cause I need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

Need you more than dope

Need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

Toast one last puff

And two last regrets

Three spirits and

Twelve lonely steps

Up heaven's stairway to gold

Mine myself like coal

A mountain of a soul

Each day, I cry

Oh, I feel so low from living high

My heart would break without you

Might not awake without you

Been hurting low, from living high for so long

I'm sorry, and I love you

Sing with me, "Bell Bottom Blue"

I'll keep searching for an answer cause I need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

I need you more than dope

I need you more

Need you more

I need you more than dope

I must say that Guns n Roses "Get in the Ring" speaks to me...

ETA: This song pops into my head every time bat-sh!t-crazy wannabe OW starts her shenanigans.

[This message edited by Allornothing at 6:23 PM, March 29th (Saturday)]