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rachelc (original poster member #30314) posted at 5:07 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
It’s either a bad year for him, he has really bad luck or something is making him very absent minded…. He rear ended a school bus this am and totaled his new car. He is ok, no kids on bus.
Many of you know he went running outside in January and broke his leg when he fell on the ice. He has never done anything like this before. And I’ve had to tell him the same thing several times… I’m sure he’ll make some sort of connection. I don’t need or want to do that for him. Or, he has a medical condition. I'm worried about him.
Whatever your truth is, you can’t outrun it. It parks itself in your brain until it comes out a different way. Believe me, I’ve tried. If he doesn’t think he can get over this, doesn’t want to be married to me, has more to tell me, whatever, I hope he deals with it for his own sake.
or, I'm totally over-thinking all this.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 6:53 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
I bet he is completely absent minded....I know I went through a very long period of time in a foggy state lol.
Whatever your truth is, you can’t outrun it.
But this ^^ is true no matter what. If you do not face your truth your truth will eventually face you.
(((hugs))) Rachel. I am glad nobody was hurt.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
brokensmile322 ( member #35758) posted at 7:12 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
((Rachelc)) I am so sorry you are hurting right now. I hear the struggle you have going on. I pray you can find peace soon. Keep hanging on.
Glad you hubby is ok. 
Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:24 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
So glad he is ok. That stinks that he totaled his new vehicle.
I get what you are saying, I really do. But you know you can't make him do anything he doesn't want or isn't ready to. He may be having a lot of internal struggle and conflict right now, thus the absentmindedness.
I would take him to the Dr though, just to be sure. Things like swings in Testosterone (not that I am on the low T bandwagon) or thyroid can cause you to be a bit foggy.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
rachelc (original poster member #30314) posted at 8:46 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
But you know you can't make him do anything he doesn't want or isn't ready to.
oh yes. I do know this.
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