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Was it Something I Said?

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 Harriet (original poster member #34543) posted at 5:41 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014

My ex is giving me the 180!

Ever since an episode where my son lied to me, and I texted the ex about it, my ex refuses to even look at me. He went from seeking me out and texting me to nothing.

All I said was, "Do I have to assume that people will generally be dishonest with me? It really hurts."

I must have hit a nerve! At first I was seriously pissed. Now I find it is somewhat of a relief. He is showing his true colors...the coward.

This is great for me as it requires no effort now to maintain the 180.

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:08 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014

Enjoy!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:39 PM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Pass ( member #38122) posted at 11:11 PM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014

So that's ALL you said? Just looking for the recipe to try and get the same treatment from The Princess! I want to make sure I get it right.

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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 Harriet (original poster member #34543) posted at 5:43 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

Pass

That really was all I said.

He still isn't speaking to me.

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 5:47 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

One time when my ex wasn't talking to me, I said "is this supposed to be punishment?" She started talking to me again. loudly. I learned my lesson.

Silence is golden.

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lastdance ( member #42401) posted at 7:34 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

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