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Leia (original poster member #42510) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
STBXWH is having an Easter Party! 
Yeah! He's already invited a little friend and her family for DD, and now he is trying to get contact info from me to talk to DS's friends. He emailed me this morning, and then texted again this afternoon. When I first started on SI, Skan pointed out that I've been fired from the secretary's position. What I want to do is email him back reiterate that I'm not the secretary of the party planning committee. Plus, I don't feel like I should share the info I have without contacting the people he wants to invite first. It just seems rude to give out someone's contact info. Any advice about what I should do? It seems awkward and like a huge waste of my time. Thanks!
"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 11:29 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Give him crickets. He's delusional.
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 3:32 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I like the whole, "You fired me as wife/secretary. That includes the part planning committee."
DSs 21, 16, 12
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Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 4:19 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Unless DS specifically asks you to give his father the information (then you would be doing it for DS), just give STBX crickets.
No sense in overtly poking the tiger by proverbially sticking out your tongue at him...but no need to play the dutiful wife either. KWIM.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:50 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Chirp chirp chirp.... 
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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