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Ostrich80 (original poster member #34827) posted at 8:40 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014
So today is the sea-hag's bday. In the past, this day would have me in A tizzy. I've spent countless hours parked in the hot car on ws route to work, hoping I would catch him with her. I actually forgot it was her bday this year, until someone told me that saw it on her DD's fbk wall. So I'm not wasting my time to drive and stake out his job, I'm not going to slyly smell him when he walks in the door, and I'm not going to ransack his clothes after he showers..nope, I'm planting flowers today and its just another warm June day. Not a big step but at least one forward and not back. BTW..this is big for me, as menial as it sounds 
have a nice day friends
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
lostworld ( member #19197) posted at 9:02 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014
I think it's a big wonderful step, and I'm really happy that you were able to take it! 
Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married Over 30 years w/ grown kids
Dday 1: 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.
LeftOutintheCold ( member #42856) posted at 1:43 AM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Great job! It really is a big thing when you realize you are getting on with your life. All steps moving forward are worth celebrating and being proud of!!
Me - 43
WH - 41
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Divorce from the ass is in progress!
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:51 AM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)
Enjoy your gardening!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
LifeIsTooWeird ( member #42093) posted at 4:44 AM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Hehe sea hag, well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt. Congrats on making it through the day, just got through my first one, next year will be easier.
Me - GF (38)
Him - BF (33)
DDay - 08/13
Together 8 Years
In R
Ostrich80 (original poster member #34827) posted at 2:02 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
]well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt.[
Maybe one lump for every year she's f**ked up for me 
[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 8:04 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)]
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
brokeninfl ( member #21896) posted at 2:13 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
It doesn't sound like a small step to me -- just a perhaps a small sign of some big healing.
I'm so glad you are doing better
"On the other side of fear lies freedom"
Me - 39 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.
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