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 Crescita (original poster member #32616) posted at 4:44 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

I'm a little worried she hasn't come around since her date with the missed connection.

Hope everything is ok.

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:56 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Oops sorry! I've just been remiss.

Date was fine, I have not disappeared into someone's basement.

Happy Friday y'all!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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 Crescita (original poster member #32616) posted at 4:59 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Oh good

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

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LineInTheSand ( member #20399) posted at 2:26 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Date was fine, I have not disappeared into someone's basement.

So, are you going to fill us in on your date??

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 3:48 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Ha it was typical of my best first dates in that he's totally inappropriate as a relationship candidate! He is younger than I realized, a very new 26, and he reminds me a lot of myself at that age, I.e. way more comfortable with creating physical intimacy than able to pursue emotional intimacy. But it was an interesting conversation and we obviously get along well. I wish I could meet him when he's 30! We're going out again on Tuesday and are supposed to get my tarot read (I've always wanted to do that). I'm trying to let myself give him a chance to step up to the plate of maturity without actu expecting him to be able to.

Also he intently kissed each of my knuckles a bunch very tenderly. So, that's a new one. I will admit to a perverse pleasure at feeling I had gotten him intrigued--it is always nice to be called 'voracious' by someone who has just met you and to think, that's right, I AM voracious!

But probably I didn't post an update because it was the type of date that implies I haven't yet learned how to date like a grown-up! None of the guys I end up clicking with quite seem to telegraph 'stable and commitment-ready'.

Sit. Feast on your life.

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

vo·ra·cious

vəˈrāSHəs/Submit

adjective

wanting or devouring great quantities of food.

"he had a voracious appetite"

synonyms: insatiable, unquenchable, unappeasable, prodigious, uncontrollable, compulsive, gluttonous, greedy, rapacious; More

having a very eager approach to an activity.

"his voracious reading of literature"

hmmmmmm

did he perhaps mean vivacious?

vi·va·cious

vəˈvāSHəs,vī-/Submit

adjective

(especially of a woman) attractively lively and animated.

synonyms: lively, spirited, bubbly, ebullient, buoyant, sparkling, lighthearted, jaunty, merry, happy, jolly, full of fun, cheery, cheerful, perky, sunny, breezy, enthusiastic, irrepressible, vibrant, vital, zestful, energetic, effervescent, dynamic; More

That sounds more complimentary

[This message edited by better4me at 4:13 PM, June 14th (Saturday)]

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
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