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Flatlined123 (original poster member #35862) posted at 10:57 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
During the A, one of H friends knew, but didn't say anything or try to tell H to get his head together and stop. H said friends only comment was "I can't judge you." Needless, to say he and H are not buddies now.
So we were sitting with someone who knows "friend" last night and it was mentioned that his wife cheated on him. My first thought was I wonder if he's going to "judge" his wife for cheating.
Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 11:54 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Ha! While I'd like to say "I don't wish that on ANYBODY." I'd be lying. I wish it on people like that.
FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.
Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...
UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.
FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 6:44 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Wow. People really are so detached from the pain BSs go through as the result of an A. I wish there was a way for society as a whole to somehow get a glimpse into how devastating it really is. I hope someone writes a best selling book or a screenplay that portrays the lives of 3 or 4 WS/BSs and accurately depicts the nightmare and the emotional dungeon we are thrown in. I, for one, would like the world to know (as much as is possible).
BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993
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