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needfriendshere (original poster member #43350) posted at 4:30 AM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
Many of the posts in SI have moved me deeply. And, because of that, several of you are in my thoughts and in my prayers every day. I hope you are o.k. with that. That's just who I am and what I do.
Tomorrow I am planning to spend the day in prayer and meditation. And if you can use this kind of encouragement, please just let me know.
I send you all hugs!
Me: early 50'sWH: early 50'sMarried: 23 yearsDS: 21 years oldOther DS: 18 years oldD-day: 2/14/2014H's LTA lasted 6 years, his EA's lasted during most of our M, but we are both trying hard to R.
peaceBmine ( member #44060) posted at 5:16 AM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
I never turn down an offer for prayer help. No one in our life knows and that is the hardest part...no one is praying with/for me.
WH is traveling for the week with work. I don't have any fear/distrust of what he's doing...since DDay he has given me no reason to doubt and he is pretty miserable having to be away from home as well. But I don't seem to function as well emotionally when he is gone (he has had to travel one other week and me a week as well.) WD re doing very well in R, so partially I just miss him, but I also fear when the pqin/anger may hit and him not being here to help me through it. (You know, the roller coaster)
In addition, I have to take my oldest to college, and have to leave her there alone. I am already missing her. She is more than ready, but mom on the other hand is struggling.
AND, all this and our first anniversary post dDay is this week as well. As I said, we are doing well in R, but I can't figure out how I feel about the anniversary. I kind of want to pretend this marriage is over and start completely fresh. BUT, this marriage gave me three dear daughters that make even this pain worth it. The anniversary is just a hard one.
So, prayers appreciated more than you know. Thank you.
Me (BS)- 42
Him (WS)- 44
Married 21 years
3 beautiful daughters (18,16,14)
DDay- 4/23/14- 6 month EA turned PA just before DDay
needfriendshere (original poster member #43350) posted at 4:53 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
You are in my prayers today, PeaceBmine! I know how you feel - with H traveling while you take a child to college. Plus it's being the anniversary of Dday!
(((PeaceBMine)))
Me: early 50'sWH: early 50'sMarried: 23 yearsDS: 21 years oldOther DS: 18 years oldD-day: 2/14/2014H's LTA lasted 6 years, his EA's lasted during most of our M, but we are both trying hard to R.
seethelight ( member #43513) posted at 4:58 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
That would be such a lovely thing to do.
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit
soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 5:05 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
That's such a thoughtful thing to do.
Could you pray for my husband, that the Lord would help him with his struggles and lead his way.
D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?
BrokenheartedWif ( member #40955) posted at 5:38 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
Prayers are always welcome. You can't get through this mess without God and prayers.
Thank you
He claims he loved me the whole time of his LTA. I'm not sure I'll survive his kind of love. Whorena The Cumdumpster pretended to be my friend the entire time as well. I'll take an enemy any day of the week.
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