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devasted30 (original poster member #39439) posted at 3:31 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
I recently posted that there was a free download of this book on the internet. Someone requested that I let them know where it was. Unfortunately, I cannot remember who it was. Please PM me and I will get it to you.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
dana1234 ( member #40952) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Me 45 BS
Him 48 WH
Married 20 years, together 25 high school sweethearts
3 Beautiful Children 17,13,13
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:12 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Hmmm...Amazon lists 2 books with the same main title and different subtitles. Also, Amazon lists one book with the subtitle of 'How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair'. This is crazy.
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_16?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=how%20to%20help%20your%20spouse%20heal%20from%20your%20affair&sprefix=how+to+help+your%2Cstripbooks%2C231
I think the Macdonald version is the one that gets good review here, since the Loving version just came out.
The Loving version looks like it's free if you subscribe to some Kindle feature.
Using the same main title and a different subtitle looks pretty unethical to me. On the face of it, I'm not happy with Ms. Loving or whoever she is.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Loadsofchocolate ( member #40708) posted at 8:30 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Here's a link to the pdf of the book -
http://www.lindajmacdonald.com/how_to_help_11-06-10_final_pdf-.pdf
Dday1 - 2013 admits EA
Dday2 - Dday5 (end 2013) breaks NC 4 times admits PA
Dday6 - November 2014 breaks NC
Dday7 - 2014 EA with COW
Dday8 - 4/2016 discover 2yr EA from 2009-2011
Dday9 - 8/2016 discover cheating from 18 years ago
2married2quit ( member #36555) posted at 8:39 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Just buy it. Support books that support us. Not trying to get on a soap box or anything, but this book helped us a lot.
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
devasted30 (original poster member #39439) posted at 8:51 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
I agree. A hard copy is best. But, since it's downloadable right from MacDonalds website, you can use this copy until you get one of your own. Thanks Loadsofchocolate for posting it for me.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 8:55 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Please don't post that PDF link. The author is not making it available for free.
I downloaded it and contacted her thanking her for it and found this out.
Please buy it. The cost is low.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
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