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lizgwvet (original poster member #15967) posted at 1:21 AM on Monday, January 14th, 2019
Have been in strict NC with EXWH, pretty much since he drove drunk with disabled son in 2017.
Accidentally ran into him when I went to pick up DS this afternoon.
He was in the process of leaving DS group home when I was arriving.
Because of the DUI I do not allow him to drive DS, so they had just returned from a walk.
Truth be told EXWH looked terrible,
Do I feel bad? NO.
When someone reveals their true self the first time believe it!
Maya Angelou
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 6:45 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2019
Truth be told EXWH looked terrible,
Do I feel bad? NO.
And you shouldn't. It was 2-0-1-7 he drove drunk with your DS. He could/should be taking these years to get himself better for his son's sake. The fact that he looks like he77 means he hasn't. Sad but that is on him.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:37 AM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2019
Good! Karma catches up somehow and now you get to catch a glimpse of it.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
lizgwvet (original poster member #15967) posted at 5:28 AM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2019
Yes, interesting how things work.
I have been dabbling in OLD, later that same day I had three dates lined up with different, guys.
I think the universe was telling me something.
When someone reveals their true self the first time believe it!
Maya Angelou
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 4:43 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2019
I think the universe was telling me something.
Yep. It was telling you the best revenge is a life free from infidelity. I haven't seen XWH#2 since the divorce was final and any attempt at contact was meet with crickets on my part. We no longer have the same friends and the one family member I still have contact with, I don't discuss anything related to him or his life now. I also don't divulge anything about my life that I don't want to get back to him. Since she lives thousands of miles away, it makes it easier. We didn't have children together, so NC is fully in force. Should I happen to someday run across him out of the blue, I would hold to my NC, even though I would want to tear him a new one in front of everyone in hearing distance. I have seen pictures on social media and he also looks like hell. I guess his life with OW and his continued life style has taken it's toll and I'm sure the fantasy has turned to reality by this time. I just smile and thank God for my healing and being free from infidelity and his sorry ass.
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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