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JBWD (original poster member #70276) posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
I just dunno y’all.
There has been plenty I’ve learned from so many on here.
But I am getting to the point where I believe I’m just on here picking a scab- Perhaps in a while there will be use and post-divorce will have some good news. But I have to focus forward and lingering here is keeping that from progressing for me.
I wish you all the best of luck and a sane holiday season- I know it’s not a joyous time for most here, regrettably.
Hopeful but trying to turn the page(!)
Me: WH (Multiple OEA/PA, culminating in 4 month EA/PA. D-Day 20 Oct 2018 41 y/o)Married 14 years Her: BS 37 y/o at D-Day13 y/o son, 10 y/o daughter6 months HB, broken NC, TT Divorced
FoenixRising ( member #63703) posted at 3:03 AM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
Take as much time as you need. Come back when/if it feels right. If you find yourself struggling just as much or if it gets worse minus SI, come back. We’re always here for you.
BS/WW
Reconciling to live happily ever after in Recovery.
ChanceAtLife35 ( member #69527) posted at 3:10 AM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
JBWD you are doing what you feel is best for you so take it one day at a time. We appreciate all of your support and insight on here. Take care and i wish you the best in your continued recovery.
Me: WW (multiple EA’s PA’s)
Her: BW
DDay: 6/9/18
IHS - Divorcing
In IC, 12 Steps program, currently reading "Boundaries in Marriage"
hikingout ( member #59504) posted at 7:21 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
Breaks are always good. Sometimes we can let a lot of what is in here seep into our thoughts, and we sometimes need to block out the noise so we can hear ourselves. I know this is a hard time for you, I hope you can find some peace and joy again. Enjoy the holidays if we don't hear from you sooner.
8 years of hard work - WS and BS - Reconciled
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