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RedHeadTemper (original poster member #71503) posted at 2:14 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Civil engineers don't count! 
just kidding.
Me:BS
Her:WW same sex AP
M:4 years
EA/PA 10 months
Young children
childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 7:26 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
I'm a systems Analyst. Aka programmer..does that count? 
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 7:30 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
I don't count. 
Although, I have many different titles (depending on how you want to look at me) but "Civil Engineer" is definitely one of them.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
ShatteredSakura ( member #70885) posted at 7:33 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Software Engineer here.
I work on CAD software for Civil Engineers ironically (some of my coworkers have their feet in both disciplines)
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 11:08 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Software developer. My concentration has been in speech recognition for the last 16 years or so, but now I'm in a different position learning different tech. Been doing software development for over 22 years.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 11:19 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2019
Ceramic engineer here, but moved to the Dark Side years ago and am in sales . (Currently software sales)
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
tbkjcn ( member #44744) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
I spent about 12 years as a programmer, then moved into networking, specifically service-provider/telco, now manager of network engineering for a regional fiber provider. So I guess I can answer "yes" to both halves of your question.
Me: BH 49 (then)
Her: WW 48 (then)
D-Day 8-30-14 3 yr LTA and 1 ONS (9-1-14 the rest of the story, she can't remember how many men)
Divorce filed 1/14/15, final 4/7/15
Married 23 years together 28
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:22 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2019
I'm in QA for a software developer... close! 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Verdamnttauschen ( member #50884) posted at 9:23 PM on Sunday, December 8th, 2019
Sr. Software and Test Engineer.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:27 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2019
I provided environments for development and operations.
My systems were great, but sometimes users - developers among them - effed them up.
Just sayin'....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
ShatteredSakura ( member #70885) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2019
Lies and slander!
Developers are good boys and girls
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 7:33 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
Programmer since a preteen, just retired after 30+ years at a company and quickly recruited by a couple others. I have a job again! :D
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
dbl post :(
[This message edited by devotedman at 1:35 PM, December 11th, 2019 (Wednesday)]
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
hopefullife ( member #71881) posted at 12:29 AM on Friday, January 24th, 2020
I realized I've never been on this part of SI. Browsed through and saw this thread.
I have an engineering degree working as a Systems Analyst. I don't do codes, but designs and tests. I tried to learn programming, but really not my thing.
[This message edited by hopefullife at 6:31 PM, January 23rd (Thursday)]
10 yrs together. 2 yrs married. No kids.
2 Ddays. H living with OW and their child.
Focusing on self.
HeartFullOfHoles ( member #42874) posted at 10:05 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2020
Both, circuits by day software by night. Most people reading this own at least one thing I have contributed to.
BH - Tried to R for too long, now happily divorced
D-Day 4/28-29/2012 (both 48 at the time)
Two adult daughters
Buck ( member #72012) posted at 11:08 PM on Sunday, January 26th, 2020
I am an engineer, process control, automation, and data acquisition.
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