Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:39 AM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2020
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 8:39 PM, January 13th (Monday)]
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
IHatePickingName ( member #70740) posted at 1:57 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2020
Thank you. I needed this. Apparently today is going to be a bad day for me. I feel triggery and raw. We are entering the first anniversary of the worst affair season and winter is always terrible for my mental health at the best of times. Yay happy birthday downer post.
BW/WW Me
WH/BH DoingThingsWrong
DDay March 2019
Reconciling
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2020
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:56 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2020
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 2:38 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2020
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 9:52 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2020
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2020
Happy Birthday! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Topic is Sleeping.
