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BraveSirRobin (original poster member #69242) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, April 30th, 2020
Just wanted to put in a reminder for anyone who is able to participate in the "BS Questions for WS" thread in I Can Relate. This is the only place on the site that betrayed spouses can solicit input from us on what makes the wayward mind tick. Despite the commonalities of the "cheater's handbook," we have really varied experiences here, so the more perspectives we can give them, the better. No pressure if that's not your personal jam, but I wanted to make sure we collectively keep it on our radar.
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Okokok ( member #56594) posted at 6:09 PM on Saturday, May 9th, 2020
I just want to second this. I often direct people to that thread, especially from Just Found Out.
There are some amazing people with great perspective in your camp, and your responses there can be really helpful!
Erstwhile BH and BBF. Always healing.
Divorced dad with little kids.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 12:34 AM on Sunday, May 10th, 2020
And I'll throw in a 3rd for that motion.
When I first came here, I was flailing around saying things like "why" and "how could he do this" and all sorts of things that he just couldn't answer. Not only did that thread help me understand the "wayward mindset", but it really helped open my eyes to what real remorse looks like.
Plus, I wasn't really ready to read in the Wayward forum so it was kind of a less triggery place to be.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Zugzwang ( member #39069) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, May 10th, 2020
It might be easier if it was set up like these if it was possible. Truth though. I usually focus more on helping WS R themselves.
"Nothing in this world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty." Teddy Roosevelt
D-day 9-4-12 Me;WS
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