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Wayward Side :
What did you do today to show appreciation for you BS

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 MyAndI (original poster member #75422) posted at 10:01 PM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2020

I'm reminding myself everyday during our hectic lives to let BW know I love her more than anything and how I appreciate the things she does for us.

Though we share chores pretty much equally, a day comes every fall when I open my closet and find my summer clothes gone and my fall and winter clothes hanging up. I would never think to do that on my own; I'm more focused on cleaning the chimney before winter and getting the storm windows in.

Like magic everything is in its place and for so many years I never really thanked her, I expected it out of routine. I told her today that I was sorry for taking it for granted and she replied that she also expects things of me during this time and takes it for granted. She smiled and kissed me. Nice of her to let me off the hook. She's been on my mind all day.

[This message edited by MyAndI at 4:02 PM, October 21st (Wednesday)]

I failed at R

Survived Infidelity as a BH, WW had a six-month EA/PA, then I had an affair of my own many years later that lasted three-years, never thought I'd ever cheat.

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foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 2:12 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020

That's really sweet. Nice to read about little things like this. Makes me look forward to sharing moments like that again.

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Mickie500 ( member #74292) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, October 29th, 2020

I’m hoping WS ‘s are doing this or start to do this. I tell my husband I love him everyday even though he broke my heart. I feel like his low self esteem is what caused him to cheat in the first place.

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