JML09 (original poster member #26809) posted at 8:46 AM on Sunday, May 17th, 2026
He’s done it again, this time with someone I have questioned him over and over about over the last 8 years and he’s adamantly denied everything. We no longer live together. I found out through my adult child, he was careless and she found out. I’m supposed to meet with him tomorrow - he hasn’t spoken to me at all since she confronted him. I don’t want to see him. I want to text him and just basically say I’m filing for divorce and have nothing to say to him, not do I care what he has to say. Emotionally I can’t handle an in-person meeting. How can I word the text without tipping my cards? I’m paying the retainer for a lawyer on Monday.
Letmebefrank ( member #86994) posted at 1:06 PM on Sunday, May 17th, 2026
I’m so sorry, JML. What an unbelievable bastard.
What cards do you not want to tip? If you’re going to tell him that you’re filing, what else are you holding back?
Why can’t you just say "I don’t want to see or talk to you right now"?
