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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, September 8th, 2011
I hesitate to do this, because it's one step away from anonymous, but March 26 is me 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:54 PM on Saturday, September 10th, 2011
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
areyoukidding ( member #30528) posted at 4:06 AM on Monday, September 12th, 2011
Mine is coming up....Sept 23rd.
One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can't change.
lostinlv ( member #31663) posted at 5:53 AM on Tuesday, September 13th, 2011
Mine is this Wednesday- the 14th :)
Areyoukidding- my son's is the 23rd. Good month! :D
me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 4:33 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2011
My birthday is September 30th and also my 40th. 
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
FogHater ( member #33156) posted at 8:16 PM on Saturday, September 24th, 2011
I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing
jilted-big-time ( member #33470) posted at 11:37 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
Me-42
STBXWH-42
Married-18years
S-4 years old
D-day #1 Feb 2009, MC began
D-day #2 Mar 2009, FR
D-day #3 May 2011, new OW
D-day #4 Sep 2011, found out R was FR, there was another OW during our MC.
Aug 2011- Divorce began
May 3, 2012 Divorced
blindsidedinCO ( member #33382) posted at 11:40 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts. ~Author Unknown
shocked4 ( member #33447) posted at 12:59 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2011
My birthday is Jan. 1. I dread it. That is the first time he slept with OW.
D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23
livetotell ( member #26527) posted at 3:08 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2011
Me: BW - 36 Him: WH - 35
D-Day 1: 11/17/09
D-Day 2: 3/31/11
I'm not taking grenades for you anymore baby.
We are in R.
"Today I will live in the moment....unless the moment is unpleasant in which case I will eat a cookie"
FacingReality ( new member #33437) posted at 8:25 PM on Thursday, October 6th, 2011
Mine is January 15.
My wife celebrated my birthday this year by starting her PA, while I was out of town.
Alex CR ( member #27968) posted at 2:20 AM on Friday, October 7th, 2011
BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.
amorfati ( member #29374) posted at 2:23 AM on Friday, October 7th, 2011
July 23. I see I share it with two other lovely SIers.
BGF: 23
Him: Out of the picture.
My story? Summed up by the last line of Hemingway's The Sun Also Rises: "Isn't it pretty to think so?"
Alternately summed up by this awesome Mark Twain quote, "There is no humor in heaven."
Mrs Jenkins ( new member #33429) posted at 2:03 AM on Sunday, October 9th, 2011
mine is Nov 25. Going to be very hard as I share it with WH and we got married on our joint birthday. This year would have been our 30th anniversary ... 
Married 29 years,together 34
2 Adult children
BW: me 54
WH: him 52 (bipolar? MLC? Gym junkie on steroids)
DD: 2/14/2011
OW: old lady (late 60's) he said drove him mad but panders to his ego calling him 'spunky'.
Status: separated
ghmom ( new member #30918) posted at 5:03 PM on Thursday, October 13th, 2011
November 10th. Thanks for doing this -- kindness goes such a long way for us BSs!
Me - 40
WH - 43
6 kids
DDay#1 - 2-4-10, DDay#2 - 7-4-11
Married 19 years, reconciling
"Keep on keepin' on" and endure patiently
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:07 AM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2011
December 27th. Last year really sucked. I spent my birthday singing and directing music for the funeral of a 25 year old young man who was the son of some dear friends. He died on Christmas eve.
Then, on 12/28 came the 1st DDay of the most recent A.
Not really looking forward to my birthday this year.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, October 21st, 2011
Mine is Dec 18... Let's not talk about what century though... 
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 3:27 PM on Thursday, October 27th, 2011
Updated to this point.
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
MovingAhead ( new member #33611) posted at 6:05 PM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2011
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 3:33 PM on Friday, November 4th, 2011
November 11.
Not looking forward to it this year :-(
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
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