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JustDesserts ( member #39665) posted at 6:59 PM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014
My first double post.
[This message edited by JustDesserts at 1:00 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]
2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 51. Her: BW, 50. Married 20 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.
Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 10:31 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Been a while since I've posted but I just read through this thread.
I try not to come across as judgemental when I post to a newbie. Who am I to judge anyway? I f*cked up just as badly as they had. I have however gone off on a member. Fairly recently too. He'd had an A, his W doesn't know and he was questioning the wisdom of immediate, hard NC. The tone of his posts were straight out of the fog, even though his A was (supposedly) over for 7 years. It was quite clear that he thought he, his A and his AP are "special." After half a dozen of this type of post, I let loose. I apologized to the OP since this was a t/j of her thread and I let DS know what I'd done through PM. It's that type of post that I get "judgemental" on. Otherwise I'll be straight with the poster in a way that shows (I hpoe) that I know where they're coming from. Read it, heard it, used it, whatever.
BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014
I would like this thread in the BS forum. When the WSs speak to each other, you all get to be very real. This is a very interesting thread :)
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 8:59 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Bump. Doesn't need to be forgotten. 
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
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