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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:48 AM on Sunday, October 15th, 2017
Hi YOP25,
I'm so glad things are going according to plan with stepmomster, and that you continue to make progress on your journey. Best wishes to you and your family!
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
CanoeVA ( member #46071) posted at 5:08 AM on Sunday, October 15th, 2017
Best thread ever.
I'm never here anymore either.
I'd love to read about that breakthrough, though.
Best to you, YOP
Me = BH
fWW- 2014 affair most of year; EA Feb/March became PA April until DDay
Married 1986
DDay- 12/08/14
2 adult children, mid 20s
OM = Wife's best friend's brother
We're both working on R
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:57 PM on Sunday, October 15th, 2017
Still here a lot, but it's still good to hear from you. And it's always good to read about someone achieving his goal, though this is the first time I'm happy to see delay in legal proceedings. 
Mixed feelings about the heavy lifting. It's no fun at all while you're building up to doing it and actually doing it, but it feels so good when you're done....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:01 AM on Monday, October 16th, 2017
I've just read this whole thread. I don't know if it's just my own personal situation at this time, and I know we are all cheering you on...
But It is all so very sad.
The way your dad was treated, you facing his "contribution" to your struggles from the perspective of him being a MH, your stepsons's pain, and the unfathomable use of your nephew for the evil woman's devices.
I, too, am so very proud that you are being your dad's KISA!
And I wish you continued success with this shit, but more so...continued healing that it is giving you.
[This message edited by WhatsRight at 1:19 AM, October 25th (Wednesday)]
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
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