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Unicornsearcher's Daughter has Passed Away

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cantlivewithouth ( member #11939) posted at 8:39 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Thanks for the update Maia.

Praying for Uni and her DD.

Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎

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BoardPearl ( member #25463) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Praying for unicornsearcher and her Daughter. Praying and sending good thoughts.

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Jen ( member #26584) posted at 9:04 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

more healing, and strength prayers for

(((DD, Uni/hubby & loved ones)))

thank you maia for your updates ... (((hugs to you also)))

It does get easier

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lemony.2008 ( member #20125) posted at 9:35 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Keeping unicornsearcher and her daughter in my prayers...

(((((unicornsearcher, daughter, and loved ones)))))

Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron

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Lucky ( member #6864) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Sending positive, loving, and healing thoughts to uni and family...

♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥



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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 10:34 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Uni's DH just called. He said that within a few hours DD will be going home (she will pass away). He asked for prayer for "a joyous return home."

I'll keep you posted.

[This message edited by Maia at 4:34 PM, September 1st (Wednesday)]

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Prayers for their DD's peaceful return home.

((Uni and family))

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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iwantamiracle ( member #22812) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

omg this so soooo sad...

sending prayers for uni and family...

thank you maia for the sad update...

My life is finally my own!!
I am happy and I am at peace!

I survived the worst pain I have ever known!!

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NewAttitude ( member #1030) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Putting my arms around them all.

Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 10:39 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Prayers for their whole family.

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 10:41 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

They are all in my prayers.

D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."

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CluelessBlonde ( member #13933) posted at 10:42 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

prayers for them all.

If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in the dark with a mosquito.

If you eat a live toad first thing in the morning, nothing worse can happen for the rest of the day.

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howcouldhe1 ( member #13210) posted at 10:46 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

I'm so so sorry.

Wishing uni and H strength to deal with this tragedy. My heart goes out to them.

Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

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TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 10:46 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Oh ... no. So sad

Please know that people care and are thinking of you at this difficult time.

Mother, I'm so tired, I want to sleep now;

let me fall asleep and feel you near

Please don't cry-there now, you'll promise, won't you?

On my face I felt your burning tear,

Here's so cold and winds outside are frightening,

but in dreams-ah that's what I like best;

I can see the darling angel children

when I shut my sleepy eyes to rest.

Mother, look, the angel 's here beside me!

Listen, too, how sweet the music grows.

See, his wings are both white and lovely;

surely it was God who gave him those.

Green and red and yellow floating round me,

they are flowers the angel came to spread.

Shall I, too, have wings while I'm alive, or-

Mother, is it only when I'm dead?

Why do you take hold of me so tightly,

put your cheek to mine the way you do?

And your cheek is wet, but yet it's burning-Mother

I shall always be with you...

Yes, but then you mustn't go on sighing;

when you cry I cry as well you see.

I'm so tired-my eyes they want stay open-

Mother-look-the Angel's kissing me.

Hans Christian Andersen

[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 10:08 AM, September 2nd (Thursday)]

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 10:46 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Prayers for a 'joyous return home' for DD and peace and strength for the family.

((((all the family))))

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 10:48 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Oh My, prayers and love to Uni and family.

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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Going_Under ( member #11606) posted at 10:48 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Prayers for the whole family.

BS 44 (Me)
FWH 47
M 24 years
Three Children ages 22, 18, and 10
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.

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veritas ( member #3525) posted at 10:49 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

(((uni and family)))

Actions unmask what words disguise.
Love many; trust few; and always paddle your own canoe.
When you win, you teach; when you lose, you learn.

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UR_AN_IDIOT ( member #18764) posted at 10:49 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Prayers and hugs for uni, DH and DD.

Me: BW 56
FWH: 58
Married 33 years
DD 31 DS 28
Reconciled

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

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