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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:24 AM on Sunday, March 26th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:35 PM on Wednesday, April 12th, 2017
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:28 PM on Sunday, May 7th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:17 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, July 11th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, July 11th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 8:13 PM on Saturday, August 5th, 2017
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:29 AM on Monday, September 4th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 11:07 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
EAC628 ( new member #60533) posted at 2:40 PM on Monday, September 18th, 2017
THANK YOU JRAZZ,!! DDay was 8/10/17. The emotional roller coaster is no joke! Thank you for your words of hope <3
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:22 AM on Thursday, October 5th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:49 PM on Tuesday, October 17th, 2017
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
runsmiley ( member #33572) posted at 7:23 AM on Thursday, October 19th, 2017
Thanks for the reminder. I keep telling myself of the strong single parents I know, and can now see the pain they had to endure. Not sure which direction we are headed but I am hopeful that someday in the future I find peace.
uxorpatricius ( member #59933) posted at 5:49 PM on Saturday, November 18th, 2017
BUMP!
Because, over 4 years since DDay - no matter if we had split or reconciled, I absolutely know that if you take healthy actions and steps toward your next phase of life, you WILL be ok.
I feel 90% myself now, and I well know what areas can trigger me back into the muck. I can face my days ahead, emotionally prepared.
I know that the muck dries and falls off within a couple of hours now, a half day on a really bad trigger, where it used to take daaaaayyyyyys.
It seems like I hear about infidelity crisis among couples I know almost weekly. You never know who might arrive here. I hope they read and know -
YOU ARE GOING TO BE OK.
Reconciling and mostly doing well now.
D-Day Summer 2013 - M 20+ years.
Our children - young adults
Me: BW -3 years of IC.
Him: formerlyWH, Mr. Uxor still in IC by his choice.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:44 AM on Thursday, January 11th, 2018
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:25 AM on Thursday, February 8th, 2018
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:08 PM on Friday, February 16th, 2018
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:23 PM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:49 PM on Saturday, March 3rd, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:39 PM on Wednesday, March 21st, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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