Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: HanginbyAthread

Just Found Out :
Are serial cheaters different beasts?

This Topic is Archived
frustrated

Troddendown ( new member #29531) posted at 11:04 PM on Monday, September 6th, 2010

They are narcassists. Google the word and tell me he doesn't fit the profile.

BW-43 WH-41
DD#1-2/10 DD#2-3/10
Married-'92 kids-18 & 14
LTA with OW (who since is 3x's married) went on '98-'02.

posts: 12   ·   registered: Sep. 6th, 2010
id 4787296
default

Trying2getby ( member #29367) posted at 10:58 AM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

I agree with FatherFirst. Cheaters need to be made to feel pain for their actions.

When I cheated on an ex 12 yrs ago, I didn't think it was wrong. I was never a cheater before nor was I one after.

I cheated for love.

When my ex ended up leaving me for another woman, I thought it was karma for my cheating.

I went into therapy and paid a heavy price for the cheating I did.

I cheated with a married man who's wife confronted me and called me every name in the boook. She was right. I was scum!

I never EVER cheated again, nor will I.

I'm happy the universe made me pay for my mistake

Now my current ex who I left 4 weeks ago cheated and I hope my leaving caused him enough pain to not do it again. But I'll probably never know that.

Bad behaviours need to be punished

[This message edited by Trying2getby at 4:58 AM, September 7th (Tuesday)]

posts: 142   ·   registered: Aug. 19th, 2010
id 4788107
default

dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 4:00 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Absolutely, YES!!!

WH just feels..."entitled"!

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

posts: 26209   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2005
id 4788516
default

racer9601 ( member #11915) posted at 6:38 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

I agree with you Troddendown. They have no regard for anyone but themselves. I am still married and I believe with all my heart that once they get caught, they just go deeper underground.

If your problems can be solved with money, you don't have problems.
Someone please jump me, I need the practice.

posts: 528   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2006   ·   location: Just outside of Hell
id 4788836
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20260402b 2002-2026 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy