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cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 5:08 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Thanks to those of you who have taken the time to read and acknowledge.
I read it but I was trying to lay low, fly under the radar, not call attention to myself...or in other words...hide.
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 2:28 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I'm with you CD. 
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 2:45 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
ditto CD
mods- acknowledged with much gratitude 
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 2:54 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
What ever happened to that hot blonde single mod who used to be here???? from Florida I seem to recall?
That would be Tonya, I think. 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Thanks for moderating us.
Respect and good manners create a relaxing environment for sharing all kinds of things. Mostly we're there and I appreciate it. Thanks for reminding us when we stray.
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
really trying ( member #5311) posted at 4:16 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 7:08 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:09 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Thanks, mods.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:11 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
That would be Tonya, I think.
Yep...that would be Tonya 
She's doing really well, although she'll be the first to admit she needs sex 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:15 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
She's doing really well, although she'll be the first to admit she needs sex
well....ive never been to Florida.......
Bufffalo
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 10:22 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
She's doing really well, although she'll be the first to admit she needs sex
Well that's good - because when OTHER PEOPLE are telling you first, and you don't know it yet ... well that's baaaaad ...
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 12:27 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Thank you for stepping in when we needed you to.
And sorry you had to. 
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 11:27 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
diditagn ( member #3433) posted at 3:14 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
Okay...must be something in the air lately.
Happy people don't have the best things, they make the best with what they have.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
I read this--honestly!! I just didn't know I needed to respond. Sorry!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
FatherofFour ( member #24263) posted at 3:47 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
discombobulated ( member #6580) posted at 5:24 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
Our Mods are the BEST! Thank you for all you do!
BS - age 52- married 27 years, in IC, support groups
WH - age 57 - sex addict/porn addict, NPD
Children 2 boys, 19 & 16
D-day #1 2/2/05, D-day #2: 1/22/06
R 4/21/05, but that was another lie, just a game.
D-day #3 11/06
Divorce final may 09
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 10:32 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
Message recieved!
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
cantlivewithouth ( member #11939) posted at 11:44 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 11:51 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
I read it too. Thank you for all you do keeping this site/forum in "check".
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
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