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Italiana ( new member #29470) posted at 2:37 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Mine apologizes frequently, really.
But his words mean nothing. He never DID anything. Actions. There was no action on his part.
Keeps saying he's sorry he hurt me. Never said he was sorry for what he did to hurt me.
Others have already said my situation. I am not holding my breath for a true apology.
(((OnceInALifetime)))
Sending you love and peace...
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BS (Me) - 41
WH (Him) - 41
No 2 legged kids... only 4 legged
Together/common-law for 13.5 yrs
D-day was June 8, 2010
"Divorced" August 26, 2010
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 6:01 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I got an apology. It really didn't make me feel better. Too little, too late.
I've also received a lot of pleas for pity. I just tell him what he always told our sons, "your decisions and actions have consequences - you have to live with them."
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
Shyla ( member #23047) posted at 8:53 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I got a three page letter saying that the affair was my fault because he became a shell of a person, working all the time for his salary and bonus, which is all I cared about... Um, I made more money than him for most of our marriage and he spent most of his time at work because he was having an affair with a co-worker!!
reallystruggling ( member #23471) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
i got a text, as i was leaving the courthouse as D was finalized. he said "i'm sorry its come to this".
not, i'm sorry i screwed someone else, (again) and you rightly divorced me.
BS, multiple D Days
Divorced 2010
Struggling no longer :)
KLinNoCA ( member #22195) posted at 1:23 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
sure did.....he was certainly sorry. Only he was sorry he got CAUGHT 
BS (me):45
STBXH:53
M 13 years, together 15yrs
4 kids (2 mine, 2 ours)
1st D-day:July 17, 2008
2nd D-Day: Nov. 20, 2008
MOW, as well as a former BFF OW--I was in an "open marriage", I just never got the memo.
Divorced his ass!!
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
stbxwh: I'm so sorry I hurt you, but I knew you would never forgive me.
Me: You never gave up your OW; how could I forgive you??
stbxwh: 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
OnceInALifetime (original poster member #26023) posted at 1:07 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Well, I guess if these asses ever did truly get how horrid they were, they'd feel so bad they'd just about kill themselves. Easier for them not to face it, I guess.
Weaklings.
FirstLoveGone ( member #25957) posted at 3:02 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
I received very few apologies (all via email). But never an actual recognition of what he had done. Just "I'm sorry." He doesn't even know what "sorry" means. I hold no stock in his apologies.
marzipan ( member #28544) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Well, not really an apology (I did get the "I never meant to hurt you" a few months ago 
) but I got this yesterday in regard to one of our kids who has some issues. It's more of an acknowledgement of his failure. A small one.
We are on the same page regarding S12. I will do whatever it takes to help him or any of the kids. They are the biggest priority in my life and they keep me going. I know i failed as a husband, but will not fail as a father, I only want the best for them.
me--Mean Batshit Crazy Pottymouth
him-- Swampy the WH
divorce DONE!!!!
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wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 6:38 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
I got a crying "I'm sorry" only when I told her I'm done... She was only sorry I wasn't going to fulfill her role for me as "backup plan"....
Really, I think mainly she's only sorry she got caught...
WB
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