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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 3:53 PM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
I thought an exit A was what my ws did. He had given up on our M, talked himself into thinking I didn't care anymore..even told me we didn't have a marriage anymore....news to me. Basically talked himself into thinking we were done so it didn't matter if he had A.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
soverybetrayed ( member #32948) posted at 4:27 PM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
In my opinion a ws throws out the term "exit affair" as a way to absolve themselves from blame and guilt. No one has an exit affair, it just a fracken AFFAIR, call it what it is A$$wipes (cheaters I mean). Notice the theme running through all the "exit affairs bs? "you didn't care, I thought the marriage was over". Did any of them tell us the marriage was over or that they thought we didn't care? NO. It is a catch phrase that they seem to pull from the WS handbook and then blame us because they "supposedly" weren't happy. Well, so sorry sunshine that you weren't happy but who the frack is responsible for that? Oh, yeah YOU!!
Me- Happily single
Divorced 8/23/2012
I am stronger and better than before.
neverendinghurt ( member #15859) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
Ohe three people I know that ha exit affairs, none of them made excuses and said anything about thinking the BS didn't care.
They all told me that they no longer cared about or loved their BS.
All three eventually married thier exit AP and are still together years later.
The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 5:08 PM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
No SVP, he didn't tell me til he was already balls deep in ow. He told me we had no M after it started when I questioned him. The title of it makes no difference, its all still selfish, chicken shit excuses.
We had stuff going on but it wasn't the first time, just the first time he decided it was a free pass to get some on the side.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
thenon-goddess ( member #31229) posted at 5:18 PM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
Exactly, SVB. It is a BS title. I way to take away some of the guilt. And A is an A.
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