I am about to fall asleep so will jabber more tomorrow, but 2 quick notes... first is dont let thrm freak you out because they are feeding you standard fare bullshit. Dont give them any more info at all. A lot of these agencies buy debts cheap so a collection is like a risk gamble. You arent legally obligated to them. Wrt the contract thing i had the exact same issue. If they have no signed dox they have nothing anyway. This is not about makng you pay adebt you are willing to pay it is a for profit biz model. Dont let them fuck with you.
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Okay. So, a lot of these places are basically just legal scams. Most of these "collections" are just small companies from as few as one friggin person who buy debts that are considered lost causes because they're hard to prove, so long overdue it's unlikely they'll ever get paid, deadbeats, etc for pennies to the dollar so that collecting on one of them results in a windfall.
They all use the same tactics involving harassment, threats and dismissive attitudes. They are not legally allowed to say or do any of the shit they say and do there and they know it and they don't care, because they also know it will cost you more in time and money to legally beat their asses. Further, arguing the legalities of it with them tells them you are worried enough about it that you are worth going after, and that they are in your head. If you ignore them to the point where you tell them they may not call you (they still will) and then hang up every time, eventually they will stop calling, but it may take a couple weeks.
If it is a legitimate debt then you can pay the person you originally owe. If they will no longer accept payment from you then document it and ask them for documentation that says you tried to pay them but they refused. This way when the legal system gets involved you have that and the judge will throw it out.
Because the judge WILL throw this shit out.
Similar situation to this, the phone company did not turn off our line after we left our last apartment. I know we gave that notice but they claimed we did not. A lot of expensive calls were made on the line after we had left, which I disputed it, they sent documentation that showed calls made but apparently had "lost" my request to shut the line off. My wife told them we'd give them 50% of what they wanted just to go away and everyone wins. They laughed at her and were pretty nasty.
So the court notice came and I accepted the date and set it rolling. This makes them panic because now they need to back their shit up or get in trouble. When they called back 3 days before the court date they asked if we could reach an agreement.
"You laughed at my wife when she asked you to reach an agreement here."
"Yeah... sorry..."
"You have no documentation, no proof the line was used beyond 3 year old bills your own company printed, for an apartment I have documentation showing we left months before these charges were made."
"I know, we've decided that a settlement is the better choice."
"No, look, asshole. Yes, I called you an asshole, and if you recorded it for later use I'd be happy to know you were playing it back to have me call you an asshole in absentia, asshole, because you fucking laughed at my wife when she offered to reach an agreement. So here are your choices: you take 10% of what you are asking for and this all goes away for everyone, or I will embarrass the fuck out of you in court and you will lose money. It will cost me some time and money to do that but by then I will be so fucking pissed off it will be worth it, and we are rapidly approaching the delineation point between you being an annoyance I want gone and you being paid entertainment."
So we paid them like 30 bucks, directly to the phone company, because I refused to deal with the collections.
Just *do not* talk to them. Tell them if they have to contact you then to do so by mail, you dispute their charges, and throw out their mail unless it's a legal notice. If they do go after your bank account then tell your bank that was not authorized and it was fraudulently withdrawn. I know Bank of America is really good about that, and they spanked the shit out of a couple of these people because while BoA is a giant soulless corporation they appear to have a lot of wonderful people working there who are just itching to do something nice. It's a really weird thing.
Don't panic. That is their most powerful tool. It's just a semi-legal scam.
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I am almost positive that it doesn't matter if they sold the debt or not, you are only required to pay the company whose services and products you purchased from.
I have dealt with collections assholes on several occasions, I am convinced they are all the kind of people who are incapable of good, honest thievery that your insurance will cover and the cops can round up.
[This message edited by StillGoing at 8:09 AM, April 14th (Sunday)]