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childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
Document all contact and file a harassment report with the police.
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
hopefulmother ( member #38790) posted at 6:55 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
Agree with Childofcheater.
So angry...went back and read all his posts about the weekend before training. How sorry he was...blah blah blah.
Never noticed how focused he is on himself. How did that weekend go?
Me-BW 44
WH-44 zugzwang
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends since 1993
Married 2004 with 2 children
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
who is paying for his training at the Academy? if it is a city or municipality I cannot believe they would be too happy helping fund his adulteress lifestyle. for that matter from what I remember of police academies, they have a code of ethics. that behavior would get most students kicked out.
talk to your attorney first.
just sayin
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 7:56 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
Wow.
I should be shocked but I am not surprised at the quality of OW he chose given what he is like.
Document.
Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing
Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 9:03 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
She contacts you when she's the cheating whore who sleeps with married men. He lies and contacts her and then provides her with personal information about you to cause more insult to the injuries he's already caused. Apparently, they are two people who get off on hurting others.
Definitely let her have him. They deserve each other. Let them self-destruct together. Hopefully, he'll marry her and then the mistress position will open up for some other woman.
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 9:11 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
LOL...don't these low lives have anything better to do but read your posts and stalk you constantly?
Gee, she must be feeling a bit anxious about her married prize and what he's up to if she's SO interested in what you have to say.
Funny, I was just reading how another poster put a profile of her husband's ex-OW up on Cheaterville.com. After 8,000+ views and tons on comments on the ex-OW's profile, someone who knew her happened to see it and let her know that it was out there. Of course, she came crying to the BW and couldn't kiss her ass ENOUGH when she realized she was powerless to take it down herself and had to rely on the BW to do that FOR her. Ain't that a shame?
And boy, the ex-OW handed the BW everything she asked for once she realized the BW was the one holding all cards. Don't that beat all?
And wouldn't that be a riot if you did the same thing?
Just sayin'.
[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 3:15 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)]
Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:02 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
Out them. Out them now. Send her harassing emails to everyone she knows along with the story of how the ho helped to blow up your marriage. And out him to his job, his family, and all of your friends. They should know what kind of faithless asshole is breathing the same air as them.
From what I understand Dear Old Jack flunked out of his training because he couldn't man-up enough to pass his physical? Poor bebe'! Guess he forgot that you have to actually DO pushups with your arms and not other, equally inadequate, pieces of his anatomy.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 9:43 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013
Have you documented these contacts?
If you have, take the list and see a lawyer. Have the Lawyer draw up a cease letter and get her served with it.
Most of them slither away when faced with possible legal ramifications.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
undonelife ( member #38421) posted at 10:51 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013
File a harassment report against her and take out a no contact order against her and him. Speak to an attorney to see if you can file suit separate from the D for mental stress and abuse.
Me: BS 59 Him: WH 57
M: 34 years
DDay 1 1986 EA Confessed,Rugswept
DDay 2 11/25/2012 EA/PA Caught
TT 9/9/13 Lies,Pictures
OW:20 yrs younger M-CwOW
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 12:39 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
Document all contact and file a harassment report with the police.
BOOM!
...put a profile of her husband's ex-OW up on Cheaterville.com. ... Of course, she came crying to the BW and couldn't kiss her ass ENOUGH...And boy, the ex-OW handed the BW everything she asked for once she realized the BW was the one holding all cards. Don't that beat all?
And wouldn't that be a riot if you did the same thing?
BOOM, BOOM!!
Out them. Out them now. Send her harassing emails to everyone she knows along with the story of how the ho helped to blow up your marriage. And out him to his job, his family, and all of your friends. They should know what kind of faithless asshole is breathing the same air as them.
BOOM, BOOM, BOOM!!!
I know that your head is reeling from this shitfest!
Take your power back. You are worth so much more than what he is giving you.
Him colluding with the whore is horrible (GAH!) but as you know he is a POD person now. Not the same guy you married, hell, he may have never been the guy you married. With all those lies he has been feeding your, its hard to tell.
Hang in there, we are rooting for you.
Strength and Light to you Stang!
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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