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stupidstupidme (original poster member #11888) posted at 12:44 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
From what I know, from Wednesday, all is ok. I'm not expecting it to all be ok and painless, but she seems to be serious and following our plan. I don't want to kid myself, but I don't want to NOT have faith in her, either, so we are keeping in close contact, I am being encouraging, asking questions, and being supportive of GOOD news.
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:07 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:08 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:08 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Thinking of you & your DD Ssm - (((hugs)))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:22 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
Sending you more strength today, ssm. How are you doing?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
chopper ( member #5772) posted at 1:28 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
(((((SSM)))))
Sending you strength and positive thoughts! I hope you had a good weekend 
Me BS(52) (39 at DD)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52) (44 at DD)
2 Kids S(27) D(24) (14 and 11 at DD)
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."–George MacDonald
"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –
stupidstupidme (original poster member #11888) posted at 2:43 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
Thanks everyone. You guys are so sweet. I love this place.
I had a great weekend. I had the Bunt for the first time since the hospital. His dad took a lot of vaca time this month, so I'm not seeing him much. I am def keeping in touch with DD several times a day, and according to her (if she's being truthful), she has not done anything since Tuesday night. She says she feels a little bad (physically), but not as bad as she feared, and no urges. She has been in meetings at least twice a day, as well - and working. I am hopeful but not convinced. Meanwhile, just keeping close encouragement going. She and her roommate were over last night doing laundry til late, and they seem good.
I had a good, quality time weekend with Bunt. Needed it, and it was great. I am not sleeping much right now, and I don't know why, but I'm desperate to fix that. Today, I might take the dog for a good long walk, then take a nice bath - try to relax enough to sleep well. 
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 6:39 PM on Monday, July 15th, 2013
(((SSM)))
Being a mommy (or parent, period) is so hard. You're doing an amazing job.
FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.
Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...
UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.
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