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Abbondad ( member #37898) posted at 2:20 PM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
So your H and his AP might have had great sex because it was all new and fresh, but it wasn't competing with anything else in their life.
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Exactly. Please try not to dwell on this. Their sex took place in a false bubble, undisturbed by kids and a million other "realities." NEVER compare cheap affair sex with committed lovemaking in a marital relationship borne from honesty, friendship, etc.---in other words, healthy reasons.
This is why most relationships that begin as affairs are doomed. Their genesis are lies, deceit, and escape. Rarely will such relationships last.
Wishing you strength--and perspective.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 11:02 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
She told him things that I know he wanted to hear. Porn star things, like how much she loved that taste of his c*m.
Sorry, not to make light of your situation, but that is fucking hilarious! And I'm sure he believed her too! 
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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nowgood ( new member #40145) posted at 2:55 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I think all W-spouses say this crap. My WH tells me now that he just made this stuff up to make things "feel right" for his selfish A** and because he's recently dead father would have approved of his Macho behavior and all this "awesome" screwing outside of marriage. But he says that in reality and looking back, it was uncomfortable, not exciting - took him A LOT to get a hard-on, and she was a robot with blank eyes.
Does this sound like awesome sex to you?
Broken6 ( member #40347) posted at 2:54 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
The OW sounds like a tramp. Hell she is one. I bet have the crap she wrote to him praising his skills was just an attempt to keep him. I am in similar situation. She is 46 year old divorced with a kid, and totally looking for a baby daddy and a meal ticket. I found emails of her asking him for money. Trust me, your WH's OW is nothing more than a piece of ass, and she will never be more than that. Hold your head high, someone like that who has no morality can never compete in the end. The infatuation always fades. Hugs to you - I wouldn't believe everything you read.
The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.
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