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Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 1:38 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
(((hugs)))
I can imagine your pain. More than once I had to rescue DD from my ILs when she was supposed to be visiting X. I won't get into the details because they do not compare with what your asshole X is doing, but I do understand somewhat.
Stay the course. And of course realize that this asshole put the nail in his coffin wrt getting custody. This type of behavior will not gain him any points in court.
I do hope he returns them soon.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 2:02 AM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 7:24 AM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
That is just evil! I feel like my WH would pull that crap. I hope he pays in BLOOD
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 8:21 PM on Sunday, September 15th, 2013
OMG GM, what a SOB. I hope the kids are home safely with you asap. ((Hugs))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 1:23 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013
If I've missed an update, I apologize.
Are the kids back?!
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:27 PM on Tuesday, September 17th, 2013
Are the kids back?!
I was wondering this too.
((((GM))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 12:30 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 7:06 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
I hope she's just too busy enjoying her babies to check in here. I've been worried. 
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 7:59 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 8:36 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 9:12 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Sending prayers and hugs GM. Hope they are safe at home with you.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 6:31 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
GrievingMommy (original poster member #28127) posted at 8:41 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
Hi everyone. Thanks for checking up on us! XH aka Douche Bag, notified me on Sunday (the 15th) at 8:30 pm that he was dropping them off the next morning.....when he knew I worked until the afternoon. So I told him that he knew I'd be working and that I'll be home at 4 pm for the exchange. I didn't hear anything from him to tell me differently.
He takes the cowards way out and drops them off at my daycare at noon!! I think that was to avoid facing me (although I literally wasn't going to say a word to him). I wouldn't have even known had she not called me and asked what was going on since I hadn't mentioned them being dropped off. He texted awhile after dropping them off.
A few minutes into talking to them at daycare, they immediately stated that I "need to share", "needs to drive", "have us 45 weeks", "they (XH) miss us more"....so they've obviously been talking to the children about adult matters/talking in front of them. Daycare Mom also heard the kids say it.
But the good thing is, the kids are home safe and sound!! Court is in the end of October.
[This message edited by GrievingMommy at 2:45 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]
Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 9:00 PM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
So glad your precious babies are back home, and UGH... Your x and his dumbass wife, need to shut their yaps in front of the kids, that's parental alienation and incredibly damaging to the kids.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
MissMoneypenny ( new member #34714) posted at 9:50 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
I am so glad you finally have your kids back but I feel so sorry for the stress and pain you are going through facing this dumbass father of them at court.
Show him the bitch boots !! 
" The only thing I have in common with OW is our birthday "
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