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laney57 ( member #35617) posted at 5:44 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Good for you Pass!
Buttt... Nothing of her on you canvas. She doesn't deserve it, and you know that. Tat away for you :).
Update 01/21/17
Me - BS, 46
Him - WH, 48
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Separated 03/2014 (he moved out of state for job)
Tried and tried and failed long distance 09/2015
Have no idea
Pass (original poster member #38122) posted at 11:43 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
IrishLass, this totally nailed it:
I really learned to love me because I had no fear that what I was doing or saying would "let someone else down".
I've ALWAYS felt like I was letting her down. She was critical of everything I did, and (I've just discovered) terribly insecure. I remember when my software rep told me I was the best programmer for that software in the country. I was very proud, and immediately told her.
Her response: "The only reason I'm not better than you (she is technologically inept, and has never programmed anything in her life; that's how I caught her cheating!), is because I haven't chosen to try to be good at it!"
She was a sheer pleasure to be around! Is it any wonder my esteem was down the shitter?
[This message edited by pass at 5:44 PM, October 12th (Saturday)]
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
Eyeofthetiger ( member #40359) posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, October 13th, 2013
Love it!! How funny are our WS. Butting their nose into business they chose not to be a part of.
I may take a page out of your book. Tattoo number 2 coming up!
XWH left 6/2013
DDay 8/19/2013
Divorce final 7/14/2014
False reconciliation 6/15-8/15
DDay 2 8/29/15
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