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Feelingobsessed (original poster new member #40978) posted at 4:48 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2013
STD free. TMI?
Have a meeting with a lawyer tomorrow, and have all the financials. He pays the bills right now, and has agreed to continue. Will sign a contract saying as much.
We are in a weird situation because of the business I'm opening. He's the contractor on my building space. We will need to be in touch, but when we talk business, it's weirdly professional.
No contact in 3 days. That's the hardest part for me. I read other people's posts, or maybe it was the 180, about needing a "fix". That is what it feels like. WOrking on not wanting that so much. Working today so that will keep me busy.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:41 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Before issuing an ultimatum to him, set one for yourself.
It does no good to draw a line in the sand and back down. Be prepared to back it up if you do.
I'm sorry about the business involvement, is there a contract btwn you regarding that?
Glad you're seeing a lawyer. If there is a contract, definitely bring it to see if & how you can change that situation.
One way to work on not wanting contact with him is to replace it with wanting more contact with you.
You go deep sister.
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