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Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 7:58 AM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
You guys are great. Thank you again. I am happy I reached out today.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 9:26 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Nobody called for a vote, and I know that there are cross posters in multiple forums, but D/S has always been my first real home and my fall back for times of need. D/S is full of the most awesome, supportive, foul mouthed, creative, wonderful people EVER!
Welcome to the bunch. 
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 9:41 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Hi Unagie.
I read many of your posts in WW, too. I very, very rarely post there, but do read.
I'm sorry you're stuck due to $$$. Sounds like a living hell. :(
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
I've posted in here a time or two and no one chased me out with a pitchfork.
In all seriousness, I'm sorry things are shitty for you right now. ((hugs))
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 12:14 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Hi Unagie, and welcome. I think a lot of us have forums that feel the most comfortable, and entering a new one can be scary. I just started posting a little in NB. Every time I read over there it seemed like the members were light years ahead of me... but I'm a little braver now and everyone has been very kind. D/S is still "home" to me though; not sure when (or if) that will change.
As previously mentioned, pain is pain, and no one should have to suffer alone. Hugs to you in your struggle.
((unagie))
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 2:02 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Hi Unagie. These are a pretty great group of people here. You'll have some fun and get lots of great support
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 2:22 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 3:25 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
KickedintheGut ( member #30086) posted at 4:01 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Nah, the swearing always goes haywire every time NG ends up with a garage thread 
Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 4:40 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Shit. Ass. Bitch. Attorneys.
Just trying to ramp up the bad words
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:50 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 6:04 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
((((Unagie))) you're safe--and welcome--here.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 6:11 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Welcome, no need for wariness . Definitely a need for a potty mouth, somewhat macabre humour and righteous indignation at fucktards.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:25 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Oh! Oh! Hey, this forum newbie may not know about The Garage yet. Lordy, I may finally be all done in the next month with that friggin' garage. Who knows, I may yet find another cache of sick, perverted, twisted shit. Or maybe I'll finally find the body or bloody knife.
You've missed some good times, Unagie. Good times.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 6:37 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Oh no NG I've read about the garage. Its been greeted with its fair share of out loud exclamations on my end.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:01 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
I don't live here and I know allllll about the garage. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:17 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Oh my! Such infamy!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:25 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
I'm just sorry that your pain makes for such gripping storytelling. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
7yrsflushed ( member #32258) posted at 8:30 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Hey Unagie, welcome to D/S. I hope you are treating your current living situation like in-house S. 180 the heck out of your EX and get a plan in place to leave. In-house S can be like a prison sentence and it's tough. If your EX thinks you are still friends then be prepared for some stupidity to come your way especially as you get closer to moving out. Keep posting and keep working your plan to move out and forward with your life.
D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!
Unagie (original poster member #37091) posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013
Thank you guys, i'm going to need the support.
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