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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 4:27 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
I suggest sewing an elastic strap onto the hat to hold it in place longer.
Then slip it on him/her and pray. 
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 2:26 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 2:39 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
Darkness Falls (original poster member #27879) posted at 5:21 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
GabyBaby: it actually does come with an elastic strap!
SerJr: Perfect!
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 6:35 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 6:40 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
^^^
I've had minimal luck getting my cat to wear a hat. He tried to back out of it... Which was hysterical
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
welcome14 ( member #26741) posted at 11:23 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
As requested, I have the pic of evil furby wizard. could someone repost how to post one? I'm a tad slow.... 
Bs- me
Someone I used to know- Him
Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx
I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
welcome14 ( member #26741) posted at 11:28 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
found it in the library. *holds breath*
it worked!!! this is taken in the .02 seconds before the x lost a little blood.... and note the very tight string under the chin...
[This message edited by welcome14 at 5:42 PM, November 2nd (Saturday)]
Bs- me
Someone I used to know- Him
Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx
I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
Darkness Falls (original poster member #27879) posted at 12:51 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Success! 
Presenting my Crazy Cat Lady holiday card for 2013:
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
welcome14 ( member #26741) posted at 1:37 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Bs- me
Someone I used to know- Him
Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx
I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
Darkness Falls (original poster member #27879) posted at 1:53 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
^^
The cat/supermodel-in-training who graciously posed for me wasn't my first choice for the picture; she was simply the calmest and most malleable. Either of the other two probably would've put me in the hospital.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 2:00 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
You are going to lose an eye. She knows where you sleep.
But I love that Santa Claws photo.
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 1:44 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
She made a purr-fect pose for you! Great Christmas card.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:20 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
That's such a cute photo!!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 2:48 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
If you need help, you should call Jean-Clawed Van Damme ... 
[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 8:52 AM, November 19th (Tuesday)]
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 2:51 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 3:35 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
I was wondering how this adventure turned out.
Very cute and no bloodshed. Success! 
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 3:37 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Darkness Falls (original poster member #27879) posted at 4:41 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Thanks guys. She is such a doll...so patient with the hat/my craziness. I gave her many treats for being so good.
I don't have human children; my cats are the lights of my life. I certainly don't make a habit of tormenting them.
TR---great pic! That cat looks slightly unhappier than mine though.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
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