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I am Telling My Lawyer on You

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Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 2:05 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

48 hrs! Fingers crossed for you...

Me: BS, 40's.

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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 2:44 AM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

"Said STBXH wanted to write language in the decree that states I will hold the phone camera for video chats."

What a complete idiot! He's 3!!!! I can't even get my 6 year old to face time for more than a few minutes.

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 2:34 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

how did it go??

and I know 13 yrs olds that barely want to chat on the phone. I dont think anyone can force you to hold a phone or make someone chat with another. especially a 3 yr old. im lucky if my 4yr old talks to me for 1 minute straight on a phone

Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.

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ruby44 ( member #41135) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

Wondering how everything went yesterday? Also, I am a vindictive person, so I would make sure that my child had a big bowl of ice cream right before the video chat and make sure he still had a chocolate moustache to boot. I just love watching 3 year old hopped up on sugar. I am JK but still would like to be a fly on the wall.

p.s. He probably also wants you to wear headphones so you can't eavesdrop on their conversation just stand there and hold the phone.

Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.

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 movingforward13 (original poster member #38405) posted at 7:39 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013

I make another thread, I am sorry.

It went well. His attorney talked some sense into him and we did not need to amend the divorce agreement. I am free.

Sad... But free... I hope 2014 is a better year for me.

[This message edited by movingforward13 at 1:39 PM, December 7th (Saturday)]

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 7:58 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013

Court MoJo Moving!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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