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I've never received a dick pic in all of my 39 years. The last time I was single was before smart phones. In the last 2 years I've had guys ask me of they can send them to me and I've impolitely declined. Not because I'm a prude or because I don't love dicks - I'm far from it and YES I do! It is because I find it a bizarre thing to do.

I have a very nice vagina but I would never think of taking a pic and sending it to someone. I can't imagine a guy would WANT to receive vag pics. Its so out of context.

As for the t/j issue - I'm with phmh.

There is something here about laughing at men but it isn't at their size/shape it is at their presumption that women get turned on by the sight of a penis. It is funny because we don't react how they think we do.

A much larger percentage of guys are sending explicit pics than women. I asked of my guy friends if they'd ever sent dicks pics expecting there to be only a few who did. They ALL had and did regularly. ALL of my female friends have received them.

Sure there are some women who do it but I would bet my right arm it isn't anywhere near the percentage of men that do.

This is funny because some men think women are turned on by dick pics.

Its a bit difficult for me to see how there is a double standard here when I see boobs in advertising everywhere. Talk to me about double standards or objectification (whether for arousal or hilarity) when you are bombarded with perfect or surgery enhanced dicks everywhere you turn and when you have to explain to young boys and men that their dicks are normal and the ones they see everywhere are not. Then maybe I'll listen.

[This message edited by SBB at 7:56 PM, August 1st (Friday)]

My point was kind of missed.

I didn't find it very funny because it was a planned thing and wasn't about a true reaction when receiving an unexpected pic.

Second point was I would not be offended by a man poking fun at an unsolicited pic. I think if you send pics of your parts to someone who was not asking for them or expecting them then you are fair game no matter the sex of the sender or the receiver.

I don't talk to her anymore but if I did, I'd totally introduce you to my ex wife.

I know what she did to you was not funny, but this right here...This is pretty damn funny, dude.

*backing away slowly*

I know what she did to you was not funny, but this right here...This is pretty damn funny, dude.

Two years later and what can you do but laugh? But seriously, she put a ton of energy into meeting random guys to validate her online, including unsolicited nudes.

ETA: And that doesn't even cover the Penthouse Forum style stories she would write for seemingly everybody who wasn't me! I lost a ton of respect for her when I found them. She wasn't exactly a talented writer.

[This message edited by h0peless at 12:11 PM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

ETA: And that doesn't even cover the Penthouse Forum style stories she would write for seemingly everybody who wasn't me! I lost a ton of respect for her when I found them. She wasn't exactly a talented writer.

Dude! Sending unsolicited porn is one thing. Unsolicited poorly-written porn? It's over.

I lost a ton of respect for her when I found them. She wasn't exactly a talented writer.

Nothing gets on my block list faster than a sext with the wrong you're/your. Even if he's foreign. Aint nobody got time for that.

I judge people who rave about 50 Shades - not for the content but the shit construction.

You're right - all you can do is laugh. It sure as shit wasn't funny at the time but I can see the funny side of it now.

I think I just don't have that sense of humor.

I don't want to see dick pics (didn't click the link). I think it's one of those things that was meant to be private between two people. I have an anti- crude sense of humor. Maybe that makes me a prude? Idk

Not to beat a dead horse - but I think asurvivor was trying to say that there is a double standard in the forum regarding posting this kind of stuff.

Maybe not. Idk.

No dick pics for me either way, please, even if the dick belongs to my SO.

You don't see anything in the link. It's a video of her commentary and reactions, and the back of her iPad.

Guess I have a warped sense of humor. I thought that it was hysterical, and I watched it with my FWH. Had it been of a guy who had never gotten a photo of boobs or V-JJs, I would have clicked on it and watched his reaction with my FWH as well. And probably have laughed my ass off too.

I guess, to me, my thinking is that a random set of "photos" were gleaned for an un-scripted first reaction of what initial thought goes through someone's head when exposed to the exposure, pun intended. It wasn't guys sending in their GFs boobs to be critiqued. It wasn't a stealthy camera man grabbing shots of unsuspecting boobs or dicks and setting the unsuspecting "owners" for ridicule, it was anonymous, evidently readily available (photo, no idea about dating possibilities) images, set up for exposure (lord, I am really having a problem with words that don't have double meanings here!) to a neophyte who, one suspects, doesn't know any of the attached persons.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that this isn't about humiliation of specific individuals, it's admittedly gross and sophomoric humor about a common phenomenon. And I evidently have a warped sense of humor.

I don't *get* dick pics. I thought only gay men subscribed to playgirl.

A toned guy in jeans and no t-shirt yeah, a picture of his dick (at attention or not)-no.

All the ones I've seen are on craigslist and half of them either have a soda can next to them (I've never heard any woman gush that her man's dick was bigger than a soda can) or a toilet in the back ground. How is any of that hot????

(I've never heard any woman gush that her man's dick was bigger than a soda can)

:laugh

Before SI, I had a completely different sense of humor (and vocabulary.) I like to think that I am a laugh at it all kinda girl now, no double standard if the humor makes fun of anyone with infidelity behaviors.

I will admit, that ((asurvivor)) I did get tickled at your frustration, shouting and "last time, nope!" posting. But again, warped humor bone nowadays! I thought the responses were not that they didn't get what you were saying, but that they disagreed, which made you trying to clarify your meaning... funnier? And you seemed to be poking fun at yourself, which is also funny.

I thought the responses were not that they didn't get what you were saying, but that they disagreed,

I did get tickled at your frustration,

seriously? I truly believe that there may be a parallel universe and somehow I have been put on the wrong one; Firstly, the only time I get frustrated is when my daughter tells me that maybe I'm getting this silver dollar bald spot on the crown of my head which I know is wrong, it's simply the new way I part my hair. Secondly, what I meant to say is so lost and misunderstood in this thread that I simply will not respond anymore,I give up, I'm not kidding this time, really I'm done, I'm finito, terminado, ich bin fertig, termino etc etc. and here is hoping... no here is praying, that when I sign on tomorrow this is no where near the top of the page.