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DMS88 ( member #13461) posted at 6:08 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
I have to agree that a bejeweled penis is a red flag. I never thought I would ever say that sentence in my life. Lol! That is so abnormal.
Me: BS
Him: WS
Discovered the affair: 4 Jan '07. It started in March '06.
Second D-Day 9 October 2007 (same woman). Moved and affair ended.
Currently separated because of his alcohol addiction and boundary issues.
olwen ( member #39759) posted at 9:04 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
Actually it's not all that weird if it's c*ck rings.
They trap the blood in the penis giving a harder erection, bigger and heightens sensations.
Kinda like your biggest most eager erection.
It intensifies sex and masturbation.
Don't know about chains and jewels though. My first thought was the chastity stuff men can wear. Some find it a turn on as they can't touch themselves or get aroused. But why then sit down to watch porn? Unless he is into some sort of control kink?
I would have to set up a camera....
Chinadoll30 ( member #43131) posted at 12:32 PM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
Okay, go to settings-->. Safari ---> at the bottom of the list Advanced ---> Websit Data ----> there you can see the websites visited, even if during private browsing.
But yeah, that's not innocent behavior. Trust your gut.
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:23 PM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
Yah, I'm on board with everyone else.
That aint normal.
You have two options, set an alarm, and then go spy on him youself.
OR
Nannycam.
He has never been fully remorseful in my book, and that comment he made about Hoping your head heals soon is just mean. I'm willing to guess you didn't say it's you that broke my head you asshole..... Quit operating from a place of fear, and know that you will be fine without him. It will give you a whole new perspective on his behaviors.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 5:02 PM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
Yeah c**k rings are pretty common but it didn't sound like those. I'd never heard of jewels or chains (outside of leather dom stuff) and had to look it up. Maybe that's not even what this guy is using.
On that site from the google search they have scrotum shields with leashes and anal jewelry. They reminded me of the beaded doorways at cheap Chinese restaurants. 
I laughed and my wh just yelled no, no!
LBTS- I always want to hug you. You talk him up saying he's been wonderful. And it makes me hurt for you. He's never been remorseful and there is nothing wonderful about gaslighting. I'm encouraged every time you post, hoping your anger and hurt will pierce through your fog. I know this isn't what you ever wanted. I'm sorry that he can't be an honest and faithful husband. You deserve to have that.
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